Hvers vegna er l\u00edfi\u00f0 eins og \u00fea\u00f0 er? Sumir tr\u00faa \u00e1 \u00f6rl\u00f6g, a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa hafir ekkert val um hva\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa gerir, \u00fev\u00ed allt s\u00e9 \u00fea\u00f0 fyrirfram \u00e1kve\u00f0i\u00f0. \u00dea\u00f0 er jafn \u00fe\u00e6gilegt a\u00f0 tr\u00faa \u00e1 \u00f6rl\u00f6g eins og \u00fea\u00f0 er svekkjandi: \u00dea\u00f0 var fyrirfram \u00e1kve\u00f0i\u00f0 af einhverjum \u00e6\u00f0ri m\u00e6tti a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa v\u00e6rir \u00feetta fokk\u00f6pp sem \u00fe\u00fa ert. Enn a\u00f0rir tr\u00faa \u00e1 a\u00f0 hver s\u00e9 sinnar g\u00e6fu smi\u00f0ur, a\u00f0 allt sem \u00fe\u00fa gerir s\u00e9 m\u00f3ta\u00f0 af eigin \u00e1kv\u00f6r\u00f0unum og ver\u00f0leikum. \u00dea\u00f0 er \u00e1l\u00edka svekkjandi, a\u00f0 vita \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 hva\u00f0 sem \u00fe\u00fa gerir fer allt \u00ed handaskolum. Ma\u00f0ur sem hugsar \u00feannig hl\u00fdtur \u00e1 endanum a\u00f0 fara a\u00f0 tr\u00faa \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 hann s\u00e9 svona \u00f3ver\u00f0ugur, a\u00f0 hann geti ekki me\u00f0 nokkru m\u00f3ti, sama hva\u00f0 hann reynir, fengi\u00f0 neitt til a\u00f0 ganga \u00f6\u00f0ruv\u00edsi en \u00e1 afturf\u00f3tunum.
\nSj\u00e1lfur neita \u00e9g a\u00f0 skilgreina mig sem hugsu\u00f0 af einhverri \u00e1kve\u00f0inni tegund. Hlutirnir vir\u00f0ast alltaf ganga sinn vanagang, hvort sem \u00e9g \u00e1 einhverja hlutdeild a\u00f0 m\u00e1li e\u00f0ur ei. Hva\u00f0 hef \u00e9g gert fyrir heiminn sem gerir hann a\u00f0 betri sta\u00f0? V\u00e6ri heimurinn eins \u00e1n m\u00edn? \u00d3neitanlega, hugsa margir svona, \u00feegar \u00feeim finnst sem heimurinn geti ekki veri\u00f0 kaldari. \u00dea\u00f0 finnst m\u00f6rgum, en ekki m\u00e9r.
\nSama hva\u00f0 \u00e1 dynur ver\u00f0ur ma\u00f0ur a\u00f0 halda \u00e1fram a\u00f0 feta sl\u00f3\u00f0ann, hvort sem hann er opinn og grei\u00f0ur e\u00f0a kr\u00f3k\u00f3ttur og h\u00e6ttulegur. L\u00edfi\u00f0 er, eins og hver sn\u00ed\u00f0ur \u00e1 sj\u00e1lfan sig. Vi\u00f0 erum vorir eigin d\u00e6mendur, hvort okkur gengur vel e\u00f0a illa \u00ed l\u00edfinu. Og n\u00fa, k\u00e6ru lesendur, er \u00e9g kominn \u00ed \u00fevers\u00f6gn og sj\u00e1lfheldu.
\n\u00d3sjaldan v\u00e6li \u00e9g um \u00f6murleika eigin tilveru og finnst allt ganga \u00ed handaskolum. Stundum brotna \u00e9g ni\u00f0ur \u00feegar \u00e9g heyri um barnadau\u00f0a, \u00fev\u00ed hva\u00f0 er skelfilegra en a\u00f0 glata l\u00edfinu, r\u00e9tt eftir a\u00f0 manni hefir hlotnast \u00fea\u00f0? Ef \u00fea\u00f0 er svo hr\u00e6\u00f0ilegt a\u00f0 deyja, getur \u00fea\u00f0 ekki veri\u00f0 n\u00e1ndar eins hr\u00e6\u00f0ilegt a\u00f0 lifa. \u00dea\u00f0 er eitthva\u00f0 sem keyrir mig \u00e1fram \u00e1 erfi\u00f0um t\u00edmum, \u00fev\u00ed hva\u00f0 sem gerist, er \u00e9g h\u00e9r, rei\u00f0ub\u00fainn a\u00f0 takast \u00e1 vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0. \u00dea\u00f0 er um a\u00f0 gera, a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 vera sterkur, hva\u00f0 sem bj\u00e1tar \u00e1.
\nVi\u00f0 hvert bakslag byggist ma\u00f0ur upp \u00f3n\u00e6mi fyrir \u00feeim, segja sumir. \u00dea\u00f0 er ekki satt. \u00dea\u00f0 er aldrei h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 baktryggja sig fyrir skakkaf\u00f6llum. En n\u00fa er m\u00e1l til komi\u00f0, a\u00f0 \u00e9g reyni a\u00f0 her\u00f0a mig upp og halda \u00e1fram.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Hvers vegna er l\u00edfi\u00f0 eins og \u00fea\u00f0 er? Sumir tr\u00faa \u00e1 \u00f6rl\u00f6g, a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa hafir ekkert val um hva\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa gerir, \u00fev\u00ed allt s\u00e9 \u00fea\u00f0 fyrirfram \u00e1kve\u00f0i\u00f0. \u00dea\u00f0 er jafn \u00fe\u00e6gilegt a\u00f0 tr\u00faa \u00e1 \u00f6rl\u00f6g eins og \u00fea\u00f0 er svekkjandi: \u00dea\u00f0 var fyrirfram \u00e1kve\u00f0i\u00f0 af einhverjum \u00e6\u00f0ri m\u00e6tti a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa v\u00e6rir \u00feetta fokk\u00f6pp sem \u00fe\u00fa … Halda \u00e1fram a\u00f0 lesa: L\u00edfi\u00f0<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[26],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1411","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/arngrimurv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1411","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/arngrimurv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/arngrimurv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/arngrimurv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/arngrimurv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1411"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/arngrimurv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1411\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11447,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/arngrimurv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1411\/revisions\/11447"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/arngrimurv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1411"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/arngrimurv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1411"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/arngrimurv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1411"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}