Hven\u00e6r hugsar ma\u00f0ur of miki\u00f0 um einhvern einn hlut, e\u00f0a eitthvert eitt mengi hluta? Hven\u00e6r n\u00e1lgast \u00e1hugi \u00e1 einhverju afm\u00f6rku\u00f0u efni \u00fer\u00e1hyggju gagnvart \u00fev\u00ed? Ret\u00f3r\u00edska spurningin hvort \u00e9g vissi a\u00f0 til v\u00e6ri f\u00f3lk sem t\u00e6ki s\u00e9r fr\u00ed um helgar haf\u00f0i enga merkingu fyrir m\u00e9r \u00e1 sunnudaginn sem var; \u00fea\u00f0 f\u00f3lk hlyti bara a\u00f0 vera \u00ed lei\u00f0inlegri vinnu.<\/p>\n
En \u00e9g \u00e1tta mig betur \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed n\u00fana \u00feegar \u00fea\u00f0 hefur fengi\u00f0 a\u00f0 gerjast a\u00f0eins a\u00f0 au\u00f0vita\u00f0 n\u00e6r \u00fea\u00f0 ekki nokkurri \u00e1tt a\u00f0 sunnudagsplani\u00f0 n\u00e1i ekki lengra en a\u00f0 g\u00f6ngut\u00far \u00ed snj\u00f3num \u2013 me\u00f0 Radiolab \u00ed eyrunum \u2013 upp Eir\u00edksg\u00f6tu, ni\u00f0ur \u00de\u00f3rsg\u00f6tu og Baldursg\u00f6tu a\u00f0 Lauf\u00e1svegi, Bragag\u00f6tu a\u00f0 S\u00f3leyjarg\u00f6tu og gegnum Hlj\u00f3msk\u00e1lagar\u00f0inn a\u00f0 \u00dej\u00f3\u00f0minjasafni, inn \u00e1 B\u00f3khl\u00f6\u00f0u a\u00f0 erindagj\u00f6r\u00f0ast og hlamma m\u00e9r svo ni\u00f0ur \u00ed Gimli me\u00f0 rj\u00fakandi (nes)kaffibolla og nj\u00f3ta fr\u00e6\u00f0istarfa. \u00c6, \u00feetta var allt svo notalegt samt.<\/p>\n
Sta\u00f0reyndin er s\u00fa a\u00f0 \u00e9g gaf upp \u00e1 b\u00e1tinn framt\u00ed\u00f0arstarf til a\u00f0 leita m\u00e9r frama \u00e1 einhverjum a\u00f0gangshar\u00f0asta vettvangi sem um getur, \u00fear sem samkeppnin er gr\u00ed\u00f0arleg, og \u00e1 versta m\u00f6gulega t\u00edma \u00ed efnahagslegu tilliti. Ekki \u00fear fyrir a\u00f0 a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0ur ver\u00f0i endilega betri h\u00e9\u00f0an af \u2013 \u00fer\u00f3unin er \u00ed \u00fe\u00e1 \u00e1tt a\u00f0 sm\u00e1msaman l\u00e1ta h\u00e1sk\u00f3lunum, s\u00e9r \u00ed lagi hugv\u00edsindadeildum, bl\u00e6\u00f0a \u00fat \u00ed sta\u00f0 aukinnar innri sam\u00fe\u00e6ttingar, hagr\u00e6\u00f0ingar og fj\u00f6lgun b\u00fdr\u00f3krata. En \u00e9g \u00e1 ekki vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0, \u00ed \u00feessu samhengi.<\/p>\n
\u00c9g er \u00e1 sj\u00f6unda \u00e1ri \u00ed h\u00e1sk\u00f3lan\u00e1mi sem gagnvart \u00cdslendingum telst vera \u00edslenskun\u00e1m en gagnvart \u00f6llum \u00f6\u00f0rum norr\u00e6nun\u00e1m. A\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed loknu taka vi\u00f0 styrkums\u00f3knir og hark \u00ed m\u00f6rg \u00e1r \u00e1\u00f0ur en m\u00e9r tekst a\u00f0 tro\u00f0a m\u00e9r inn \u00ed h\u00e1sk\u00f3la \u00e1 botninum hva\u00f0an \u00e9g vinn mig upp eftir \u00fev\u00ed sem eldist \u00far st\u00e9ttinni. \u00c9g ver\u00f0 \u201eof h\u00e6fur\u201c fyrir flest \u00f6nnur st\u00f6rf en \u00feetta eina sem \u00fer\u00e1hyggjan keyrir mig \u00e1fram til a\u00f0 mennta mig til a\u00f0 sinna. En s\u00fa sta\u00f0reynd er \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00ed\u00f0asta sem \u00e9g reyni a\u00f0 hugsa um.<\/p>\n
N\u00e6stu (t\u00e6pu) fj\u00f6gur \u00e1r f\u00e6 \u00e9g a\u00f0 b\u00faa \u00ed b\u00f3lu s\u00ed\u00f0ustu n\u00e1ms\u00e1ranna. \u00de\u00e1 hugsar ma\u00f0ur um a\u00f0ra hluti en a\u00f0 f\u00e1 ekki vinnu eftir v\u00f6rn, einsog \u00fea\u00f0 hversu l\u00e9legur fr\u00e6\u00f0ima\u00f0ur ma\u00f0ur er samanbori\u00f0 vi\u00f0 alla a\u00f0ra. \u00dea\u00f0 kallast svikaraheilkenni<\/a> og er mj\u00f6g algengt fyrirb\u00e6ri. \u00c9g \u00fearf ekki a\u00f0eins a\u00f0 standast m\u00ednar eigin kr\u00f6fur, heldur \u00fearf \u00e9g a\u00f0 vinna mig upp \u00ed a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a eins f\u00e6r og allir \u00ed kringum mig \u2013 sem er v\u00edst alger t\u00e1ls\u00fdn en \u00fea\u00f0 gleymist annan hvern dag. Mest er bar\u00e1ttan vi\u00f0 eigin kr\u00f6fur, e\u00f0a \u00f6llu heldur slagurinn um a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 standast \u00fe\u00e6r. Og svo rankar ma\u00f0ur vi\u00f0 s\u00e9r einn g\u00f3\u00f0an ve\u00f0urdag og uppg\u00f6tvar a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur mun aldrei standast \u00fe\u00e6r. Kr\u00f6furnar eru \u00f3raunh\u00e6far. Ranns\u00f3knin felur aldrei allt \u00fea\u00f0 \u00ed s\u00e9r sem h\u00fan \u00e6tti a\u00f0 gera. Efni\u00f0 ver\u00f0ur aldrei t\u00e6mt og f\u00f3kusinn \u00ferengist ennfremur dag fr\u00e1 degi. Hi\u00f0 almenna hverfur og leysist upp \u00ed \u2013\u2013 kannski eitthva\u00f0 allt anna\u00f0 en lagt var upp me\u00f0 \u00ed upphafi.<\/p>\n Og hva\u00f0 gerir ma\u00f0ur \u00fe\u00e1? Ekkert, nema a\u00f0 m\u00e6ta n\u00e6sta dag aftur \u00ed vinnuna og halda \u00e1fram a\u00f0 pu\u00f0a. \u00der\u00e1hyggjan skilar einhverju a\u00f0 lokum, og vonin er a\u00f0 eftir t\u00edu \u00e1ra h\u00e1sk\u00f3lan\u00e1m hafi m\u00e9r tekist a\u00f0 n\u00e1 utan um nokkurn veginn \u00fea\u00f0 l\u00e1gmark sem m\u00e9r finnst bo\u00f0legt a\u00f0 mi\u00f0lungs akadem\u00edskur r\u00e6fill hafi t\u00f6k \u00e1. Og helst miklu meira en \u00fea\u00f0.<\/p>\n En \u00feessar kr\u00f6fur koma ekki utan fr\u00e1, og \u00fe\u00e6r eru ekki algerlega m\u00edn eigin uppfinning heldur; \u00fe\u00e6r eru aflei\u00f0ing \u00feess a\u00f0 hafa oftar en einu sinni veri\u00f0 \u00ed \u00feeim sporum a\u00f0 hvorki \u00e9g n\u00e9 a\u00f0rir h\u00f6f\u00f0u tr\u00fa \u00e1 m\u00e9r til nokkurs, af \u00fev\u00ed \u00e9g f\u00e9ll \u00ed framhaldssk\u00f3la ekki einu sinni, heldur tvisvar, og \u00ed kj\u00f6lfari\u00f0 upplif\u00f0i \u00e9g afar sterka en \u00edmynda\u00f0a ni\u00f0url\u00e6gingu vegna \u00feess. \u00c9g upplif\u00f0i tilfinningar sem \u00e9g skildi ekki en \u00e9g tel n\u00fa a\u00f0 hafi veri\u00f0 kv\u00ed\u00f0i og jafnvel v\u00e6g, \u00e1unnin f\u00e9lagsf\u00e6lni. \u00dea\u00f0 gekk svo langt a\u00f0 ef manneskja sem \u00e9g m\u00e6tti brosti, til m\u00edn e\u00f0a einhvers annars, \u00fe\u00e1 var \u00fev\u00ed \u00e1 einhvern h\u00e1tt beint gegn m\u00e9r. \u00dea\u00f0 gat ekki anna\u00f0 veri\u00f0 en a\u00f0 allir v\u00e6ru a\u00f0 horfa \u00e1 mig, \u00f6llum stundum, og henda gaman a\u00f0 m\u00e9r. \u00deetta er \u00fea\u00f0 versta sem \u00e9g hef upplifa\u00f0 og \u00e9g er stundum ekki viss um hvort \u00e9g hafi nokkru sinni jafna\u00f0 mig alveg.<\/p>\n \u00c1 d\u00f6gunum var m\u00e9r bo\u00f0i\u00f0 \u00ed fur\u00f0ulegt samkv\u00e6mi \u00fear sem \u00e9g var spur\u00f0ur hva\u00f0 \u00e9g ger\u00f0i. \u00dea\u00f0 er versta spurning sem \u00e9g g\u00e6ti fengi\u00f0. Anna\u00f0 hvort fylgir \u00fev\u00ed framhaldsspurningin hva\u00f0 \u00e9g geti n\u00fa gert vi\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1 menntun, e\u00f0a \u00fe\u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00e9g \u00fearf a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 \u00fatsk\u00fdra ranns\u00f3knina m\u00edna. \u00cd \u00feetta sinn f\u00e9kk \u00e9g \u00ed fyrsta skipti \u00feau vi\u00f0br\u00f6g\u00f0 a\u00f0 spyrjandinn hopa\u00f0i, sag\u00f0i \u201eV\u00f3\u00f3\u201c og l\u00e9t einsog \u00e9g v\u00e6ri alltof f\u00ednn fyrir \u00feetta part\u00ed \u2013 anna\u00f0 hvort \u00fea\u00f0 e\u00f0a \u00fe\u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00e9g hafi veri\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 hrokafullur a\u00f0 hafa sett mig \u00e1 h\u00e1an hest yfir hann og alla a\u00f0ra. E\u00f0a eitthva\u00f0. \u00c9g benti honum \u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00e9g v\u00e6ri n\u00fa bara n\u00e1msma\u00f0ur. \u201eEn \u00fe\u00e9r n\u00e6gir greinilega ekki masterinn!\u201c sag\u00f0i hann \u00fe\u00e1, og \u00e9g skildi ekkert hva\u00f0 hann \u00e1tti vi\u00f0. Og \u00fear me\u00f0 upplif\u00f0i \u00e9g \u00ed fyrsta sinn a\u00f0 vera or\u00f0inn \u201ereject\u201c hinumegin fr\u00e1 \u2013 pott\u00fe\u00e9tt s\u00f6mulei\u00f0is bara m\u00edn upplifun en ekki hans, einsog me\u00f0 ni\u00f0url\u00e6ginguna for\u00f0um.<\/p>\n \u00dea\u00f0 er til f\u00f3lk sem tekur s\u00e9r fr\u00ed um helgar. \u00c9g er enn a\u00f0 velta \u00fev\u00ed fyrir m\u00e9r hvers vegna \u00e9g geri \u00fea\u00f0 ekki. \u00deetta er einsog me\u00f0 hra\u00f0aksturinn: \u00fea\u00f0 munar kannski \u00f6rf\u00e1um m\u00edn\u00fatum a\u00f0 aka 30km hra\u00f0ar en l\u00f6glegt er. Sama gildir um \u00fea\u00f0 hvort ma\u00f0ur m\u00e6tir \u00e1 skrifstofuna um helgar e\u00f0a ekki \u00feegar \u00feetta er fj\u00f6gurra \u00e1ra pr\u00f3sess hvort e\u00f0 er. En \u2013\u2013 \u00e9g \u00e1 b\u00e1gt me\u00f0 tilhugsunina um a\u00f0 taka m\u00e9r of miki\u00f0 fr\u00ed. \u00c9g er n\u00fdkominn \u00far j\u00f3lafr\u00edi sem endist m\u00e9r allt \u00e1ri\u00f0, tel \u00e9g m\u00e9r tr\u00fa um. S\u00fa tilfinning felst \u00f6ll \u00ed vanm\u00e6ttinum sem \u00e9g enn finn stundum fyrir. Af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 eins vont og \u00fea\u00f0 var \u00feegar enginn haf\u00f0i tr\u00fa \u00e1 m\u00e9r, \u00fe\u00e1 var \u00fea\u00f0 enn\u00fe\u00e1 verra \u00feegar \u00e9g haf\u00f0i ekki tr\u00fa \u00e1 m\u00e9r sj\u00e1lfur. Og kannski sn\u00fdst \u00feetta blogg d\u00e1l\u00edti\u00f0 um \u00fea\u00f0. Bar\u00e1ttuna vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 halda tr\u00fanni.<\/p>\n \u00c9g veit alveg a\u00f0 \u00e9g get \u00feetta, a\u00f0 \u00e9g er f\u00e6r. \u00c9g veit \u00fea\u00f0 bara mismiki\u00f0 eftir \u00fev\u00ed hva\u00f0a dagur er og hvorumegin \u00e9g fer fram \u00far r\u00faminu \u00feann daginn. \u00c1 hinn b\u00f3ginn er \u00fea\u00f0 \u00feegar \u00e9g er hva\u00f0 mest viss um eigi\u00f0 erindi \u00ed fr\u00e6\u00f0unum a\u00f0 \u00e9g m\u00e6ti \u00ed vinnuna \u00e1 sunnudegi. Hvernig \u00e6tli standi \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Hven\u00e6r hugsar ma\u00f0ur of miki\u00f0 um einhvern einn hlut, e\u00f0a eitthvert eitt mengi hluta? Hven\u00e6r n\u00e1lgast \u00e1hugi \u00e1 einhverju afm\u00f6rku\u00f0u efni \u00fer\u00e1hyggju gagnvart \u00fev\u00ed? Ret\u00f3r\u00edska spurningin hvort \u00e9g vissi a\u00f0 til v\u00e6ri f\u00f3lk sem t\u00e6ki s\u00e9r fr\u00ed um helgar haf\u00f0i enga merkingu fyrir m\u00e9r \u00e1 sunnudaginn sem var; \u00fea\u00f0 f\u00f3lk hlyti bara a\u00f0 vera \u00ed … Halda \u00e1fram a\u00f0 lesa: Svikaraheilkenni\u00f0<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[17,19,28],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3999","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-minningarbrot","category-nami","category-ur-daglega-lifinu"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/arngrimurv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3999","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/arngrimurv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/arngrimurv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/arngrimurv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/arngrimurv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3999"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/arngrimurv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3999\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":13903,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/arngrimurv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3999\/revisions\/13903"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/arngrimurv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3999"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/arngrimurv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3999"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/arngrimurv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3999"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}