\u00c9g held \u00fea\u00f0 megi f\u00e6ra r\u00f6k fyrir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 a.m.k. tvenns konar aukal\u00f6g hafi b\u00e6st ofan \u00e1 \u00feegar marglaga veruleika mannlegra samskipta me\u00f0 tilkomu Facebook. \u00de\u00e1 \u00e1 \u00e9g vi\u00f0 samskipti sem hef\u00f0u ekki \u00e1tt s\u00e9r sta\u00f0 ella.<\/p>\n
\u00dea\u00f0 eru annars vegar \u00feeir sem ma\u00f0ur \u00feekkir ekkert \u00ed raun en ma\u00f0ur af einhverjum l\u00f6ngu gleymdum \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0um hefur vingast vi\u00f0 \u00e1 Facebook. Stundum \u00feekkir ma\u00f0ur svo l\u00edti\u00f0 til vi\u00f0komandi a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur kynni ekki einu sinni vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 skrifa \u00e1 vegginn \u00feeirra, en samt sem \u00e1\u00f0ur \u00fe\u00e1 ver\u00f0ur til n\u00fdtt vandam\u00e1l \u00e1 g\u00f6tum \u00fati: heilsar ma\u00f0ur \u00f3kunnuga Facebookvininum e\u00f0a ekki? Vi\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0ur gilda almennar heilsreglur, \u00fe.e.a.s. ma\u00f0ur heilsar ekki nema hinn heilsi fyrst (sem getur skapa\u00f0 \u00e1hugavert vandam\u00e1l). Oftast endar ma\u00f0ur samt \u00e1 a\u00f0 heilsa a\u00f0 fyrra brag\u00f0i, eftir fl\u00f3kinn leik augnsambandstengsla , -rofs og endurtengsla. Hvernig sem leikurinn annars endar l\u00ed\u00f0ur manni alltaf einsog h\u00e1lfvita eftir \u00e1. Vandinn vi\u00f0 \u00feessi samskipti er a\u00f0 etableru\u00f0 heilsregla ver\u00f0ur sjaldnast til milli f\u00f3lks sem varla er m\u00e1lkunnugt og \u00fev\u00ed \u00fearf a\u00f0 endurmeta hvort heilsa eigi sama \u00f3kunnuga Facebookvininum \u00ed hvert einasta sinn sem ma\u00f0ur m\u00e6tir honum<\/em>. \u00dearna hafi\u00f0 \u00fei\u00f0 fengi\u00f0 l\u00fdsingu \u00e1 einni minni verstu hvunndagsmartr\u00f6\u00f0.<\/p>\n Hitt lagi\u00f0 er j\u00e1kv\u00e6tt og ver\u00f0ur til ofan \u00e1 kunningjasamskipti, og \u00feetta tengist nokkru sem \u00e9g r\u00e6ddi vi\u00f0 N\u00f6nnu Hl\u00edn<\/a> letibloggara, Brynd\u00edsi sem af \u00f3skiljanlegum \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0um bloggar ekki og H\u00f6skuld sem \u00e9g veit ekki hvort bloggar e\u00f0a ekki (vi\u00f0 vorum sems\u00e9 a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a samskiptareglur og s\u00e9r \u00ed lagi vandr\u00e6\u00f0aleg samskipti). F\u00f3lk sem ma\u00f0ur annars \u00feekkir l\u00edti\u00f0 og yr\u00f0i annars kannski feiminn vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 tala vi\u00f0 er oft svo \u00e1berandi \u00e1 Facebook a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur stendur sig a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 kommenta hj\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed, til ver\u00f0a l\u00e6kbandal\u00f6g og a\u00f0 lokum getur ma\u00f0ur tala\u00f0 vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 \u00ed kj\u00f6theimum einsog ekkert s\u00e9; \u00far ver\u00f0ur eins konar \u00e6\u00f0ri kunningsskapur, jafnvel vin\u00e1tta, vi\u00f0 f\u00f3lk sem ma\u00f0ur annars myndi \u00ed besta falli segja h\u00e6 vi\u00f0 \u00e1 Laugaveginum. Svo eru au\u00f0vita\u00f0 hinir sem ma\u00f0ur af einhverjum s\u00f6kum getur \u00e1tt skemmtileg samskipti vi\u00f0 \u00e1 Facebook en alls ekki \u00ed kj\u00f6theimum og vandr\u00e6\u00f0alegra getur \u00fea\u00f0 eiginlega ekki or\u00f0i\u00f0.<\/p>\n B\u00e6\u00f0i aukal\u00f6g m\u00e1 \u00feannig rekja til f\u00f3lks sem ma\u00f0ur \u00feekkir \u00fdmist ekkert e\u00f0a l\u00edti\u00f0 en hafa afar \u00f3l\u00edkar aflei\u00f0ingar, neikv\u00e6\u00f0ar og j\u00e1kv\u00e6\u00f0ar. Svo getur f\u00f3lk raunar f\u00e6rst um flokk \u00ed hvora \u00e1ttina sem er; \u00f3kunnuga Facebookvininum getur ma\u00f0ur kynnst og svo ef langt l\u00ed\u00f0ur milli samskipta getur ma\u00f0ur \u00ed einhverjum skilningi afkynnst kunningjum svo \u00fea\u00f0 h\u00e6ttir a\u00f0 vera sj\u00e1lfkrafa vi\u00f0eigandi a\u00f0 heilsa \u00feeim. En \u00fea\u00f0 er anna\u00f0 og fl\u00f3knara m\u00e1l a\u00f0 rekja \u00fea\u00f0 \u00ed svo stuttu m\u00e1li.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \u00c9g held \u00fea\u00f0 megi f\u00e6ra r\u00f6k fyrir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 a.m.k. tvenns konar aukal\u00f6g hafi b\u00e6st ofan \u00e1 \u00feegar marglaga veruleika mannlegra samskipta me\u00f0 tilkomu Facebook. \u00de\u00e1 \u00e1 \u00e9g vi\u00f0 samskipti sem hef\u00f0u ekki \u00e1tt s\u00e9r sta\u00f0 ella. \u00dea\u00f0 eru annars vegar \u00feeir sem ma\u00f0ur \u00feekkir ekkert \u00ed raun en ma\u00f0ur af einhverjum l\u00f6ngu gleymdum \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0um … Halda \u00e1fram a\u00f0 lesa: Samskiptin sem aldrei hef\u00f0u or\u00f0i\u00f0<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[28],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4067","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-ur-daglega-lifinu"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/arngrimurv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4067","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/arngrimurv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/arngrimurv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/arngrimurv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/arngrimurv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4067"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/arngrimurv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4067\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":13914,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/arngrimurv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4067\/revisions\/13914"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/arngrimurv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4067"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/arngrimurv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4067"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/arngrimurv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4067"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}