Ef \u00fea\u00f0 v\u00e6ru til \u00ed\u00fer\u00f3tta\u00e1hugam\u00e6lar \u00fe\u00e1 myndi minn \u00e1hugi varla vera m\u00e6lanlegur. Ekki a\u00f0 \u00e9g s\u00e9 eitthva\u00f0 \u00e1 m\u00f3ti \u00ed\u00fer\u00f3ttum, \u00e1huginn er bara eitthva\u00f0 takmarka\u00f0ur. \u00c9g l\u00edt upp til \u00feeirra sem standa sig vel \u00ed \u00ed\u00fer\u00f3ttum, \u00fe\u00e6r pers\u00f3nur hafa sj\u00e1lfsaga og metna\u00f0 sem \u00e9g b\u00fd ekki yfir. \u00c9g samgle\u00f0st \u00edslenska handboltali\u00f0inu og finnst flott a\u00f0 hr\u00f3sa me\u00f0limum \u00feess me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 taka vel \u00e1 m\u00f3ti \u00feeim.<\/p>\n
\u00c9g var a\u00f0 hugsa \u00ed dag. \u00dea\u00f0 gerist svona \u00f6\u00f0ru hverju. Sumir dagar eru bara pirrandi, fullir af klaufaskap og litlum \u00f3h\u00f6ppum. Barni\u00f0 sofnar ekki \u00feegar ma\u00f0ur er b\u00fainn a\u00f0 pakka \u00fev\u00ed \u00ed vagn, b\u00edllinn \u00e1kve\u00f0ur a\u00f0 fara ekki \u00ed gang og allir hlutir vir\u00f0ast s\u00e6kja \u00ed a\u00f0 detta \u00ed g\u00f3lfi\u00f0. Og \u00e9g ver\u00f0 pirru\u00f0. Og \u00fea\u00f0 var einmitt undir svona kringumst\u00e6\u00f0um sem \u00e9g hugsa\u00f0i a\u00f0 \u00feetta eru svo f\u00e1r\u00e1nlegir hlutir til a\u00f0 pirra sig yfir… hva\u00f0 me\u00f0 alla sem hafa \u00fea\u00f0 svo virkilega sl\u00e6mt. Og \u00e9g labba um \u00ed landi \u00fear sem er fri\u00f0ur, \u00e9g \u00e1 g\u00f3\u00f0a heilsu, fj\u00f6lskyldu, vini og s\u00ed\u00f0ast en ekki s\u00edst yndislegt afkv\u00e6mi… og \u00e9g pirra mig \u00e1 hlutum sem skipta engu m\u00e1li. Og \u00e1fram hugsa\u00f0i \u00e9g. \u00dea\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00e9g pirra mig \u00e1 \u00feessum hlutum er merki um hva\u00f0 \u00e9g hef \u00fea\u00f0 gott. Sama hversu „fullkomi\u00f0“ l\u00edf manns er \u00fe\u00e1 tekst manni alltaf a\u00f0 finna eitthva\u00f0 a\u00f0. \u00dev\u00ed verra sem \u00e1standi\u00f0 er s\u00e6ttir ma\u00f0ur sig vi\u00f0 minna, \u00fev\u00ed minni ver\u00f0a kr\u00f6furnar og \u00fev\u00ed st\u00e6rri atri\u00f0i \u00fearf til a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur kvarti. \u00c9g er \u00feakkl\u00e1t fyrir allt sem \u00e9g hef… \u00feakkl\u00e1t fyrir a\u00f0 vera \u00ed \u00feeirri a\u00f0st\u00f6\u00f0u a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta sm\u00e1atri\u00f0i fara \u00ed taugarnar \u00e1 m\u00e9r? Kannski, en \u00e9g geri m\u00e9r betur og betur grein fyrir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 umr\u00e6dd sm\u00e1atri\u00f0i eru \u00ed rauninni l\u00faxus. Og \u00fe\u00f3 \u00e9g \u00e6tli a\u00f0 halda \u00e1fram a\u00f0 vera mannleg (\u00e1kva\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 eftir langa umhugsun ;)) og ver\u00f0a pirru\u00f0 yfir engu eins og anna\u00f0 f\u00f3lk, \u00fe\u00e1 geri \u00e9g m\u00e9r allavega grein fyrir \u00fev\u00ed hversu heppin \u00e9g er.<\/p>\n
Svo er \u00fea\u00f0 \u00f6\u00f0ruv\u00edsi pirringur. \u00c9g er b\u00fain a\u00f0 vi\u00f0urkenna a\u00f0 „erfi\u00f0ir“ dagar geta b\u00f6gga\u00f0 mig en a\u00f0 \u00f6\u00f0ru leyti nenni \u00e9g vo\u00f0alega sjaldan a\u00f0 n\u00f6ldra. M\u00e9r hefur alltaf fundist \u00fe\u00e6gilegast a\u00f0 hugsa bara hva\u00f0 m\u00e9r finnst og leyfa svo \u00f6\u00f0rum a\u00f0 sj\u00e1 um n\u00f6ldri\u00f0. \u00c9g veit \u00e9g veit… ef allir v\u00e6ru eins og \u00e9g myndi ekkert gerast \u00ed heiminum, engar framfarir, engar r\u00f6kr\u00e6\u00f0ur, nokkrir milljar\u00f0ar af hugsandi Dagbj\u00f6rtum sem nenna ekki a\u00f0 r\u00edfast. \u00dea\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fd\u00f0ir ekki a\u00f0 \u00e9g hafi ekki sko\u00f0anir en ef \u00fe\u00e6r eru neikv\u00e6\u00f0ar finnst m\u00e9r betra a\u00f0 halda \u00feeim fyrir mig. Og \u00fe\u00e1 a\u00f0 seinni \u00edhugun dagsins. Hvernig nennir f\u00f3lk ALLTAF a\u00f0 n\u00f6ldra yfir hlutum? Hva\u00f0 f\u00e6r f\u00f3lk til a\u00f0 vilja ey\u00f0a t\u00edma s\u00ednum \u00ed a\u00f0 sj\u00e1 neikv\u00e6\u00f0ar hli\u00f0ar \u00e1 \u00f6llu sem gerist og r\u00f6fla yfir \u00fev\u00ed? \u00deetta er \u00e1kve\u00f0inn skali. \u00c9g skil best a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk ey\u00f0i t\u00edma \u00ed a\u00f0 vekja athygli \u00e1 sl\u00e6mum hlutum sem snerta \u00f6ryggi, heilsu e\u00f0a almenn l\u00edfsg\u00e6\u00f0i annarra manneskja. \u00c9g skil a\u00f0eins minna hvernig f\u00f3lk nennir a\u00f0 tala um gengi og stj\u00f3rnm\u00e1lamenn, \u00e9g skil \u00fe\u00f6rfina \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed en finn enga l\u00f6ngun til \u00feess sj\u00e1lf. En \u00e9g skil hins vegar alls ekki hvernig f\u00f3lk nennir a\u00f0 tj\u00e1 sig s\u00e9rstaklega neikv\u00e6tt um \u00fea\u00f0 \u00feegar anna\u00f0 f\u00f3lk gerir eitthva\u00f0 j\u00e1kv\u00e6tt. Hvernig nennir fj\u00f6ldi f\u00f3lks a\u00f0 skrifa s\u00e9rstakar bloggf\u00e6rslur um hversu asnalegt, lei\u00f0inlegt og \u00f6murlegt \u00fea\u00f0 er a\u00f0 gera svona miki\u00f0 \u00far \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 taka \u00e1 m\u00f3ti handboltagaurunum? Hvernig nennir f\u00f3lk a\u00f0 tj\u00e1 sig um a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 fara a\u00f0 gubba af \u00f3ge\u00f0i \u00e1 \u00feessum \u00fdktu vi\u00f0br\u00f6g\u00f0um? V\u00e6ri ekki \u00e1g\u00e6tis tilbreyting a\u00f0 hugsa bara a\u00f0 \u00feetta s\u00e9 a\u00f0 minnsta kosti eitthva\u00f0 sem er gott og gaman fyrir marga… \u00feetta er ekki str\u00ed\u00f0, ekki sj\u00fakd\u00f3mur, ekki f\u00e1t\u00e6kt, ekki mannvonska – ekki vandam\u00e1l! Svari\u00f0 vi\u00f0 spurningunni um hvernig f\u00f3lk nennir a\u00f0 skrifa s\u00e9rstakar bloggf\u00e6rslur til a\u00f0 r\u00f6fla yfir einhverju eins og \u00feessu er v\u00e6ntanlega: Alveg eins og \u00e9g nennti a\u00f0 skrifa \u00feessa bloggf\u00e6rslu. En… \u00e9g skil \u00feetta samt ekki! Er r\u00f6fl virkilega grunn\u00de\u00d6RF hj\u00e1 einhverjum? Alveg sama hva\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 er, svo lengi sem er h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 vera neikv\u00e6\u00f0ur \u00fat \u00ed eitthva\u00f0? Sko\u00f0anir eru nau\u00f0synlegar en hver og einn ver\u00f0ur v\u00edst a\u00f0 vega og meta hven\u00e6r hann vill kasta \u00feeim \u00e1 neti\u00f0 og hven\u00e6r ekki.<\/p>\n
Og hana n\u00fa.<\/p>\n
Dagger… sem finnst skemmtilegra a\u00f0 lesa j\u00e1kv\u00e6\u00f0ar bloggf\u00e6rslur en net\u00fatg\u00e1fu af Velvakanda<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Ef \u00fea\u00f0 v\u00e6ru til \u00ed\u00fer\u00f3tta\u00e1hugam\u00e6lar \u00fe\u00e1 myndi minn \u00e1hugi varla vera m\u00e6lanlegur. Ekki a\u00f0 \u00e9g s\u00e9 eitthva\u00f0 \u00e1 m\u00f3ti \u00ed\u00fer\u00f3ttum, \u00e1huginn er bara eitthva\u00f0 takmarka\u00f0ur. \u00c9g l\u00edt upp til \u00feeirra sem standa sig vel \u00ed \u00ed\u00fer\u00f3ttum, \u00fe\u00e6r pers\u00f3nur hafa sj\u00e1lfsaga og metna\u00f0 sem \u00e9g b\u00fd ekki yfir. \u00c9g samgle\u00f0st \u00edslenska handboltali\u00f0inu og finnst flott a\u00f0 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-140","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-almennt"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/dagbjort\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/140","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/dagbjort\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/dagbjort\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/dagbjort\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/dagbjort\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=140"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/dagbjort\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/140\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/dagbjort\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=140"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/dagbjort\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=140"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/dagbjort\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=140"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}