{"id":405,"date":"2006-10-09T11:48:00","date_gmt":"2006-10-09T11:48:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/gamla.truflun.net\/daniel\/?p=405"},"modified":"2006-10-09T11:48:00","modified_gmt":"2006-10-09T11:48:00","slug":"er-ofbjo%c3%b0unarfikn-til","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/daniel\/2006\/10\/09\/er-ofbjo%c3%b0unarfikn-til\/","title":{"rendered":"Er ofbj\u00f3\u00f0unarf\u00ed\u00adkn til?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00dea\u00f0 er margt \u00ed\u00ad samf\u00e9laginu sem m\u00e9r finnst athugunarvert, sumt er sm\u00e1v\u00e6gilegt, anna\u00f0 pirrar mig og sumt beinl\u00ed\u00adnis gengur fram af m\u00e9r. Sem betur fer er \u00fea\u00f0 mun meira sem m\u00e9r finnst d\u00e1samlegt og \u00feess vegna er \u00e9g yfirleitt frekar gla\u00f0ur og hress.<br \/>\nD\u00e6mi um \u00feetta sem \u00e9g nefndi eru samt t.d.: <\/p>\n<p>\n<em>-A\u00f0flutningsfj\u00f6ld, v\u00f6rugj\u00f6ld og vir\u00f0isaukaskattur \u00e1 flutningsgj\u00f6ld<br \/>\n-Frams\u00f3knarflokkurinn<br \/>\n-\u00ed\u009dmsar greinar \u00ed\u00ad dagbl\u00f6\u00f0um sem vir\u00f0ast skrifa\u00f0ar \u00e1n grunnskilnings \u00e1 umfj\u00f6llunarefninu (oft greinar frj\u00e1lshyggjumanna um mennta- e\u00f0a heilbrig\u00f0iskerfi\u00f0)<br \/>\n-Stanslaus tr\u00faar\u00e1r\u00f3\u00f0ur \u00ed\u00ad fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0lum, sk\u00f3lum og samr\u00e6\u00f0um (Samf\u00e9lagi\u00f0 gengur nefnilega \u00fat fr\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed\u00ad a\u00f0 allir s\u00e9u tr\u00faa\u00f0ir, r\u00e9tt eins og \u00fea\u00f0 gengur \u00fat fr\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed\u00ad a\u00f0 allir s\u00e9u gagnkynhneig\u00f0ir)<br \/>\n-F\u00f3lk sem ekur \u00e1 20 til 30 k\u00ed\u00adl\u00f3metra hra\u00f0a og skapar \u00feannig mikla h\u00e6ttu \u00ed\u00ad umfer\u00f0inni<\/em> <\/p>\n<p>\nStundum gremst m\u00e9r \u00feetta \u00fea\u00f0 miki\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00e9g \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 til a\u00f0 blogga um \u00feetta. \u00ed\u008d kennaraverkfallinu hneyksla\u00f0i m\u00e1lflutningur \u00ed\u00ad fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0lum, b\u00e6\u00f0i einstakra bla\u00f0amanna og pistlah\u00f6funda, en einnig greinar fr\u00e1 samt\u00f6kum foreldra, mig svo miki\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00e9g blogga\u00f0i um \u00fea\u00f0. \u00de\u00e1 f\u00e9kk \u00e9g b\u00e1gt fyrir. Enda sag\u00f0i \u00e9g kannski sumt \u00ed\u00ad meiri ge\u00f0shr\u00e6ringu og af meiri tilfinningahita en einkennir mig dags daglega. Sumu af \u00fev\u00ed\u00ad svara\u00f0i \u00e9g en \u00f6\u00f0ru ekki. \u00c9g skil \u00fea\u00f0 vel a\u00f0 menn vilji draga sig \u00fat \u00far \u00feannig umr\u00e6\u00f0u, s\u00e9rstaklega ef \u00feeim l\u00ed\u00ad\u00f0ur eins og h\u00fan s\u00e9 \u00f3r\u00f0in pers\u00f3nuleg og \u00feeir finna fyrir vanl\u00ed\u00ad\u00f0unar vegna hennar.<br \/>\nEn svo er l\u00ed\u00adka til f\u00f3lk sem l\u00e6tur s\u00e9r ekki n\u00e6gja a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta eitthva\u00f0 sem \u00fea\u00f0 ver\u00f0ur fyrir \u00f3umbe\u00f0i\u00f0 pirra sig (eins og vi\u00f0 ver\u00f0um l\u00ed\u00adklega \u00f6ll fyrir) og minnst var \u00e1 \u00ed\u00ad punktunum h\u00e9r a\u00f0 ofan heldur ver\u00f0ur sj\u00e1lft a\u00f0 finna og leita uppi eitthva\u00f0 sem \u00fea\u00f0 getur pirra\u00f0 sig \u00e1 og l\u00e1ti\u00f0 ofbj\u00f3\u00f0a s\u00e9r.<br \/>\n\u00deannig er \u00fev\u00ed\u00ad fari\u00f0 me\u00f0 manninn sem \u00feolir ekki Hemma Gunn en horfir alltaf \u00e1 hann \u00ed\u00ad sj\u00f3nvarpinu og hneykslast. Konuna sem missti aldrei af F\u00f3stbr\u00e6\u00f0rum og l\u00fdsti \u00fev\u00ed\u00ad svo fj\u00e1lglega yfir \u00ed\u00ad n\u00e6sta fj\u00f6lskyldubo\u00f0i hva\u00f0 \u00feeir v\u00e6ru l\u00ed\u00adti\u00f0 fyndnir. \u00dea\u00f0 er mj\u00f6g misjafnt hva\u00f0 f\u00f3lk er til \u00ed\u00ad a\u00f0 ganga langt \u00ed\u00ad \u00fev\u00ed\u00ad a\u00f0 leita eftir \u00feessu. <\/p>\n<p>\nSumir ganga svo langt a\u00f0 \u00feeir nota neti\u00f0 sem hj\u00e1lpart\u00e6ki og liggja \u00ed\u00ad \u00fev\u00ed\u00ad a\u00f0 sko\u00f0a nets\u00ed\u00ad\u00f0ur sem ofbj\u00f3\u00f0a \u00feeim. <\/p>\n<p>\nN\u00fa get \u00e9g vel skili\u00f0 a\u00f0 margt sem er a\u00f0 finna \u00e1 netinu hneyksli f\u00f3lk. Margt af \u00fev\u00ed\u00ad hneykslar mig. Einnig finnst m\u00e9r sj\u00e1lfssagt a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk tj\u00e1i sig um \u00fea\u00f0 og a\u00f0 \u00feeir sem standa a\u00f0 efninu tj\u00e1i sig til baka o.s.frv. Ef s\u00fa umr\u00e6\u00f0a ver\u00f0ur s\u00e6randi og vond finnst m\u00e9r l\u00ed\u00adka sj\u00e1lfssagt a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk dragi sig \u00fat \u00far henni.<br \/>\nHitt skil \u00e9g ekki jafnvel a\u00f0 f\u00f3lki geti fundist ofst\u00e6ki <em>(hvort sem \u00fea\u00f0 er raunverulegt ofst\u00e6ki e\u00f0a \u00ed\u00admynda\u00f0)<\/em> sem einskor\u00f0ast vi\u00f0 \u00e1kve\u00f0na vefs\u00ed\u00ad\u00f0u sem \u00fea\u00f0 ver\u00f0ur sj\u00e1lft a\u00f0 fara inn \u00e1 til a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a fyrir svo alvarlegt a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 finni sig kn\u00fai\u00f0 til \u00feess a\u00f0 setja upp a\u00f0ra vefs\u00ed\u00ad\u00f0u til a\u00f0 berjast gegn \u00fev\u00ed\u00ad. Ekki \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk \u00e1 a\u00f0 sj\u00e1lfss\u00f6g\u00f0u a\u00f0 hafa fullan r\u00e9tt til a\u00f0 gera \u00fea\u00f0 \u00fe\u00f3 \u00e9g skilji \u00fea\u00f0 ekki.<br \/>\nS\u00e9rstaklega finnst m\u00e9r \u00feetta \u00f3skiljanlegt \u00ed\u00ad lj\u00f3si \u00feess a\u00f0 \u00feetta meinta ofst\u00e6ki sem menn ver\u00f0a a\u00f0 s\u00e6kja s\u00e9r sj\u00e1lfir er andsvar vi\u00f0 &#8222;ofst\u00e6ki&#8220; sem birtist daglega \u00ed\u00ad fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0lum, umr\u00e6\u00f0um, vi\u00f0horfum og normum samf\u00e9lagsins og menn ver\u00f0a fyrir alveg \u00f3umbe\u00f0i\u00f0.<br \/>\n\u00c9g get mun betur skili\u00f0 a\u00f0 menn and\u00e6fi \u00fev\u00ed\u00ad en hinu.<br \/>\nA\u00f0 lokum langar mig a\u00f0 velta \u00fev\u00ed\u00ad upp hvort setningin: <em><strong>&#8222;Bestu r\u00f6kin gegn samkynhneig\u00f0 eru hommarnir&#8220;<\/strong><\/em> s\u00e9 meira s\u00e6randi fyrir homma en setningin: <em><strong>&#8222;Bestu r\u00f6kin gegn samkynhneig\u00f0 er homminn sem kallar sig X og heldur \u00fev\u00ed\u00ad fram a\u00f0 allir gagnkynhneig\u00f0ir s\u00e9u me\u00f0 h\u00f3m\u00f3f\u00f3b\u00ed\u00adu&#8220;<\/strong><\/em>?<br \/>\nLifi\u00f0 s\u00e6l.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00dea\u00f0 er margt \u00ed\u00ad samf\u00e9laginu sem m\u00e9r finnst athugunarvert, sumt er sm\u00e1v\u00e6gilegt, anna\u00f0 pirrar mig og sumt beinl\u00ed\u00adnis gengur fram af m\u00e9r. Sem betur fer er \u00fea\u00f0 mun meira sem m\u00e9r finnst d\u00e1samlegt og \u00feess vegna er \u00e9g yfirleitt frekar gla\u00f0ur og hress. D\u00e6mi um \u00feetta sem \u00e9g nefndi eru samt t.d.: -A\u00f0flutningsfj\u00f6ld, v\u00f6rugj\u00f6ld og [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":15,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-405","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-almennt"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/daniel\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/405","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/daniel\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/daniel\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/daniel\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/15"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/daniel\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=405"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/daniel\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/405\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/daniel\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=405"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/daniel\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=405"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/daniel\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=405"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}