J\u00e6ja, \u00fe\u00e1 er \u00fej\u00f3\u00f0fundi loki\u00f0 og vir\u00f0ist sem hann hafi lukkast vel. \u00de\u00e1 \u00fearf bara \u00fea\u00f0 f\u00f3lk sem er samm\u00e1la \u00fev\u00ed sem \u00fear kom fram a\u00f0 kj\u00f3sa s\u00e9r fulltr\u00faa \u00e1 stj\u00f3rnlaga\u00feingi\u00f0 til a\u00f0 framkv\u00e6ma \u00fea\u00f0.<\/p>\n
\u00deeir sem eru kosnir \u00e1 stj\u00f3rnlaga\u00feing eru n\u00e1tt\u00farulega ekki bundnir af neinu \u00f6\u00f0ru en sinni eigin sannf\u00e6ringu. \u00deeir \u00feurfa ekki a\u00f0 taka mark \u00e1 ni\u00f0urst\u00f6\u00f0um \u00fej\u00f3\u00f0fundar frekar en \u00fe\u00e1 langar.<\/p>\n
M\u00e9r er \u00feannig fari\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 eru \u00feau m\u00e1l sem m\u00e9r finnst skipta miklu m\u00e1li a\u00f0 s\u00e9u \u00e1 \u00e1kve\u00f0inn m\u00e1ta. K\u00f6llum \u00feau bar\u00e1ttum\u00e1l. Til d\u00e6mis \u00feetta me\u00f0 \u00fer\u00edskiptinguna og \u00e1hrif stj\u00f3rnm\u00e1laflokkanna sem \u00e9g nefndi \u00ed s\u00ed\u00f0ustu viku. Svo eru \u00f6nnur \u00feau m\u00e1l sem \u00e9g hef m\u00edna sko\u00f0un \u00e1, sem \u00e9g myndi kj\u00f3sa a\u00f0 v\u00e6ru \u00e1 \u00feennan e\u00f0a hinn veginn, en \u00fear sem \u00e9g geri r\u00e1\u00f0 fyrir a\u00f0 afsta\u00f0a m\u00edn myndi a\u00f0 st\u00f3rum hluta m\u00f3tast af andr\u00famsloftinu \u00e1 \u00feinginu sj\u00e1lfu. \u00c9g \u00e6tla r\u00e9tt a\u00f0 vona a\u00f0 flestum frambj\u00f3\u00f0endum s\u00e9 svipa\u00f0 fari\u00f0.<\/p>\n
T\u00f6kum d\u00e6mi.<\/p>\n
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\u00c9g er utan tr\u00faf\u00e9laga. \u00c9g hef veri\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00ed\u00f0an \u00ed n\u00f3vemberlok 2007. \u00deetta ver\u00f0a \u00ferj\u00fa \u00e1r \u00e1 kosningadaginn, n\u00e1nast upp \u00e1 dag. Og m\u00e9r l\u00ed\u00f0ur lj\u00f3mandi vel me\u00f0 \u00feetta. Enda er \u00e9g tr\u00falaus.<\/p>\n
Konan m\u00edn og b\u00f6rn eru \u00ed \u00fej\u00f3\u00f0kirkjunni, og samkv\u00e6mt \u00fev\u00ed \u00f6lum vi\u00f0 b\u00f6rnin upp. \u00c9g segi \u00feeim hvernig \u00e1 a\u00f0 koma fram vi\u00f0 n\u00e1ungann og fer me\u00f0 b\u00e6nirnar me\u00f0 \u00feeim \u00e1 kv\u00f6ldin. Og m\u00e9r l\u00ed\u00f0ur lj\u00f3mandi vel me\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 l\u00edka. \u00deannig var \u00e9g alinn upp, og komst \u00fe\u00f3 \u00feanga\u00f0 sem \u00e9g er \u00ed dag.<\/p>\n
Einhverjum \u00f6\u00f0rum tr\u00falausum finnst \u00e9g kannski vera a\u00f0 gera \u00feetta aftur\u00e1bak: A\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur eigi ekki a\u00f0 byrja \u00e1 a\u00f0 innr\u00e6ta b\u00f6rnunum; ef \u00feau vilji taka tr\u00fa \u00fe\u00e1 geti \u00feau gert \u00fea\u00f0 \u00feegar \u00feau \u00feroskast. En m\u00e9r finnst \u00feetta einmitt eiga a\u00f0 vera \u00e1 \u00feennan veginn en ekki \u00f6fugt: \u00dea\u00f0 \u00fearf \u00feroska til a\u00f0 kasta tr\u00fanni.<\/p>\n
\u00c9g hef ekkert veri\u00f0 miki\u00f0 fyrir a\u00f0 \u00fatvarpa \u00feessu, \u00fe\u00f3tt \u00feetta s\u00e9 ekkert leyndarm\u00e1l – \u00fea\u00f0 ver\u00f0ur bara hver a\u00f0 segja s\u00ednum gu\u00f0um upp sj\u00e1lfur, finnst m\u00e9r.<\/p>\n
\u00cd lj\u00f3sinu af ofans\u00f6g\u00f0u er kannski ekkert skr\u00edti\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00e9g er hlynntur a\u00f0skilna\u00f0i r\u00edkis og kirkju. En \u00fer\u00e1tt fyrir \u00fea\u00f0 – og \u00fer\u00e1tt fyrir a\u00f0 \u00dej\u00f3\u00f0fundur vir\u00f0ist hafa sent ansi sk\u00fdr skilabo\u00f0 um hi\u00f0 sama – \u00fe\u00e1 er \u00feetta ekkert sem \u00e9g set \u00e1 oddinn.<\/p>\n
Ef f\u00f3lki finnst mj\u00f6g mikilv\u00e6gt a\u00f0 r\u00edki og kirkja ver\u00f0i a\u00f0skilin \u00ed stj\u00f3rnarskr\u00e1, \u00fe\u00e1 \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 kj\u00f3sa einstaklinga sem finnst \u00fea\u00f0 mikilv\u00e6gt. Einnig, \u00feeir sem vilja vinna allt hva\u00f0 \u00feeir geta til a\u00f0 halda \u00ed s\u00edna g\u00f6mlu g\u00f3\u00f0u \u00fej\u00f3\u00f0kirkju ver\u00f0a a\u00f0 kj\u00f3sa s\u00e9r fulltr\u00faa til a\u00f0 gera akk\u00farat \u00fea\u00f0. Sj\u00e1lfum finnst m\u00e9r mikilv\u00e6gast a\u00f0 s\u00e1tt n\u00e1ist um m\u00e1li\u00f0 – a\u00f0 \u00feetta m\u00e1l ver\u00f0i ekki \u00e1steytingarsteinninn fyrir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 allt fari \u00ed vaskinn.<\/p>\n
Ef ekki n\u00e6st brei\u00f0 s\u00e1tt um afn\u00e1m \u00e1kv\u00e6\u00f0a um \u00fej\u00f3\u00f0kirkju \u00far stj\u00f3rnarskr\u00e1, \u00fe\u00e1 \u00e6tti a\u00f0 vera h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 setja \u00e1kv\u00e6\u00f0i sem seg\u00f0i eitthva\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00fe\u00e1 lei\u00f0 a\u00f0 al\u00feingi s\u00e9 heimilt a\u00f0 setja l\u00f6g um \u00fej\u00f3\u00f0kirkju – a\u00f0 leyfilegt s\u00e9 a\u00f0 hafa hana samkv\u00e6mt stj\u00f3rnarskr\u00e1, \u00fe\u00f3tt \u00fatf\u00e6rsla hennar s\u00e9 ekki bundin \u00ed stj\u00f3rnarskr\u00e1na sj\u00e1lfa.<\/p>\n
Sj\u00e1lfur held \u00e9g a\u00f0 a\u00f0skilna\u00f0urinn muni ver\u00f0a, einhvernt\u00edma. En \u00feetta by\u00f0i \u00fe\u00e1 upp \u00e1 meira \u00ferepaskipt a\u00f0l\u00f6gunarferli.<\/p>\n
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\u00c9g \u00e1 enn eftir a\u00f0 nefna \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9rstaklega \u00ed h\u00e9r meginm\u00e1li a\u00f0 au\u00f0kennisn\u00famer mitt er 3502.<\/p>\n