\u00c9g t\u00f3k ekki \u00fe\u00e1tt \u00ed n\u00fdlegum „leik“ \u00e1 Facebook \u00fear sem f\u00f3lk var a\u00f0 tala um hluti sem \u00fea\u00f0 \u00feoldi ekki a\u00f0 leiddist. \u00c9g skrifa\u00f0i sn\u00f6ggt um \u00fea\u00f0 f\u00e6rslu sem m\u00e9r fannst, eftir \u00e1, l\u00edta \u00fat fyrir a\u00f0 \u00e9g v\u00e6ri a\u00f0 setja mig \u00e1 h\u00e1an hest. \u00dea\u00f0 var ekki \u00e6tlunin.<\/p>\n
Um \u00fea\u00f0 leyti sem \u00e9g var\u00f0 fertugur \u00e1kva\u00f0 \u00e9g a\u00f0 h\u00e6tta a\u00f0 tala um hluti sem fara \u00ed taugarnar \u00e1 m\u00e9r e\u00f0a m\u00e9r lei\u00f0ist. Lesendur \u00feessa blogg eru \u00e1n efa hissa og spyrja hvers vegna \u00e9g s\u00e9 \u00fe\u00e1 t.d. a\u00f0 tala um Facebook e\u00f0a AirBnB. \u00dea\u00f0 sem \u00e9g er a\u00f0 segja \u00e1 a\u00f0allega vi\u00f0 um menningar- og af\u00fereyingarefni. S\u00f6mulei\u00f0is er \u00e9g a\u00f0 hugsa um fr\u00e6gt f\u00f3lk s.s. \u00e1hrifavalda og anna\u00f0 sem \u00e9g fatta ekki. Hins vegar er \u00fea\u00f0 \u00feannig a\u00f0 fyrirt\u00e6ki, stofnanir og kerfi \u00e1, og \u00fearf, a\u00f0 gagnr\u00fdna.<\/p>\n
N\u00fa v\u00e6ri kannski e\u00f0lilegt a\u00f0 skilja mig \u00feannig a\u00f0 \u00e9g s\u00e9 bara a\u00f0 l\u00edta st\u00f3rt \u00e1 mig, a\u00f0 \u00e9g s\u00e9 betri en a\u00f0rir. \u00dea\u00f0 er ekki \u00e6tlunin. Ekki beint. \u00c9g \u00e1tta\u00f0i mig bara \u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00e9g f\u00e9kk kj\u00e1nahroll \u00feegar \u00e9g s\u00e1 f\u00f3lk \u00e1 m\u00ednum aldri, og eldra, kommenta vi\u00f0 fr\u00e9ttir um eitthva\u00f0 sem unga f\u00f3lkinu finnst hipp og k\u00fal. Komment eins og: „Er \u00feetta eitthva\u00f0 merkilegt? \u00c9g hef aldrei heyrt um x.“<\/p>\n
\u00c9g er ekki a\u00f0 segja a\u00f0 \u00e9g s\u00e9 betri en \u00feetta f\u00f3lk. \u00devert \u00e1 m\u00f3ti er \u00e9g \u00feetta f\u00f3lk. \u00c9g<\/strong> hef aldrei heyrt um „x“! \u00c9g er bara a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 fela hve hall\u00e6rislegur \u00e9g er. \u00dea\u00f0 a\u00f0 fatta ekki eitthva\u00f0 \u00feegar ma\u00f0ur er fertugur er ekki merki um a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur s\u00e9 a\u00f0 standa gegn straumnum. Ma\u00f0ur er \u00fevert \u00e1 m\u00f3ti \u00ed hringi\u00f0unni me\u00f0 \u00f6llum hinum sem fylgjast ekki me\u00f0.<\/p>\n Ef \u00e9g vildi g\u00e6ti \u00e9g nota\u00f0 „afaklausuna“ til a\u00f0 tala um hluti sem m\u00e9r hefur lengi \u00fe\u00f3tt asnalegir. Og \u00e9g geri \u00fea\u00f0 stundum. En \u00e9g reyni a\u00f0 for\u00f0ast \u00fea\u00f0. \u00dea\u00f0 er minna tengt \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 vera fertugur og meira um a\u00f0 \u00e1tta mig \u00e1 sannleikanum \u00ed l\u00ednu sem Steve Martin segir \u00ed \u00ed L.A. Story<\/em>:<\/p>\n \u00c9g held a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa \u00e1ttir \u00feig ekki \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed hve \u00f3a\u00f0landi hatur er.<\/em><\/p>\n (I don’t think you understand how unattractive hate is.<\/span><\/em>)<\/p>\n \u00deannig a\u00f0 \u00e9g er ekki a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 setja mig \u00e1 h\u00e1an hest. \u00c9g er bara a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 vera minna hall\u00e6rislegur og \u00f3a\u00f0la\u00f0andi. \u00d3kei, kannski er \u00e9g l\u00edka a\u00f0 vonast til \u00feess a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a betri manneskja me\u00f0 t\u00edmanum.<\/p>\n \u00dea\u00f0 m\u00e1 alltaf vona.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \u00c9g t\u00f3k ekki \u00fe\u00e1tt \u00ed n\u00fdlegum „leik“ \u00e1 Facebook \u00fear sem f\u00f3lk var a\u00f0 tala um hluti sem \u00fea\u00f0 \u00feoldi ekki a\u00f0 leiddist. \u00c9g skrifa\u00f0i sn\u00f6ggt um \u00fea\u00f0 f\u00e6rslu sem m\u00e9r fannst, eftir \u00e1, l\u00edta \u00fat fyrir a\u00f0 \u00e9g v\u00e6ri a\u00f0 setja mig \u00e1 h\u00e1an hest. \u00dea\u00f0 var ekki \u00e6tlunin. Um \u00fea\u00f0 leyti sem \u00e9g … Halda \u00e1fram a\u00f0 lesa: \u00d3a\u00f0la\u00f0andi hatur<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":18626,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[69],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18625","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-um-mig-fra-mer-til-min"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18625","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18625"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18625\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":18629,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18625\/revisions\/18629"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/18626"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18625"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18625"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18625"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}