\u00dea\u00f0 var manneskja sem \u00e9g s\u00e1 oft \u00feegar \u00e9g var t\u00e1ningur. Mig minnir a\u00f0 h\u00fan (manneskjan) hafi veri\u00f0 \u00e1 mi\u00f0jum aldri. H\u00fan leyf\u00f0i s\u00e9r uppreisn gegn vi\u00f0teknum venjum var\u00f0andi \u00fatlit og kl\u00e6\u00f0abur\u00f0. Ekki \u00e1berandi. Ekki miki\u00f0. \u00c9g vissi ekkert hva\u00f0 \u00feetta \u00fe\u00fdddi og \u00e9g \u00e6tla ekki a\u00f0 giska n\u00fana \u00fe\u00f3 \u00e9g hafi vissulega greinilegri hugmyndir um hva\u00f0 var \u00e1 sey\u00f0i. En \u00e9g get \u00edmynda\u00f0 m\u00e9r a\u00f0 litlar uppreisnir hafi kosta\u00f0 miki\u00f0 hugrekki, s\u00e9rstaklega \u00e1 \u00feessum t\u00edma \u00e1 Akureyri.<\/p>\n
\u00deegar \u00e9g var a\u00f0eins eldri var \u00f6nnur manneskja sem kom alveg \u00fat \u00far sk\u00e1pnum me\u00f0 a\u00f0 vera trans \u00e1 Akureyri. H\u00fan var \u00f3tr\u00falega hugr\u00f6kk. En ma\u00f0ur heyr\u00f0i f\u00f3lk \u00ed kringum sig tala um hana \u00e1 mj\u00f6g ni\u00f0randi h\u00e1tt. „Hva\u00f0 \u00e1 ma\u00f0ur a\u00f0 kalla hann e\u00f0a hana e\u00f0a \u00feetta?“ \u00c9g held a\u00f0 samkennd m\u00edn me\u00f0 samkyhneig\u00f0um hafi yfirf\u00e6rst \u00e1 transf\u00f3lk \u00feannig a\u00f0 \u00e9g t\u00f3k aldrei undir svona tal. En \u00e9g sag\u00f0i aldrei neitt. \u00c9g var kannski r\u00e9ttum megin \u00ed sko\u00f0unum en \u00e9g var ekki hugrakkur.<\/p>\n
\u00c9g velti oft fyrir m\u00e9r \u00f6llum \u00feessum hann\/h\u00fan\/\u00feetta br\u00f6ndurum \u00feegar \u00e9g heyri f\u00f3lk kvarta yfir \u00feeim pers\u00f3nuforn\u00f6fnum sem transf\u00f3lk k\u00fds s\u00e9r. \u00c6tli \u00feessir kvartarar hafi ekki sagt svipa\u00f0a brandara \u00e1 s\u00ednum t\u00edma?<\/p>\n
\u00deegar \u00e9g f\u00f3r hlusta\/horfa \u00e1 hla\u00f0varpi\u00f0 Harmontown „kynntist“ \u00e9g manneskju sem kom h\u00e6gt og r\u00f3lega \u00fat \u00far sk\u00e1pnum sem trans. S\u00e9rfr\u00e6\u00f0ingur \u00ed gleri (sbr. gl\u00f6sum og sl\u00edku) sem heitir Jane. \u00c1 nokkrum \u00e1rum kom h\u00fan reglulega \u00ed heims\u00f3kn \u00fatsk\u00fdr\u00f0i fyrir f\u00f3lki hvernig h\u00fan s\u00e6i sj\u00e1lfa sig. Mj\u00f6g \u00e1hugavert. \u00c1hrif hennar \u00e1 \u00e1heyrendur komu s\u00ed\u00f0an \u00ed lj\u00f3s \u00feegar einhver uppistandaragaur sem gestur og f\u00f3r a\u00f0 segja frekar milda transf\u00f3b\u00edska brandara. \u00c1horfendur voru bara alls ekki \u00ed stu\u00f0i a\u00f0 heyra svona kjaft\u00e6\u00f0i.<\/p>\n
\u00c9g er allavega kominn yfir \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 hunsa transf\u00f3b\u00edska brandara. \u00c9g hef sl\u00f6kkt \u00e1 nokkrum uppist\u00f6ndum sem \u00e9g hef veri\u00f0 a\u00f0 horfa \u00e1 af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00e9g nennti ekki a\u00f0 hlusta \u00e1 svona rugl. \u00c9g tek fram a\u00f0 \u00e9g er ekki a\u00f0 segja a\u00f0 \u00feessir uppistandarar s\u00e9u vondar manneskjur. \u00dea\u00f0 er eiginlega frekar a\u00f0 m\u00e9r finnist \u00feeir vandr\u00e6\u00f0alega hall\u00e6rislegir. \u00cdhald dulb\u00fai\u00f0 sem uppreisn gegn valdi er bara kj\u00e1nalegt. \u00dea\u00f0 m\u00e1 hiklaust gera gr\u00edn a\u00f0 Caitlyn Jenner en transf\u00f3b\u00edsku brandarar Ricky Gervais eru ekki bara \u00e1r\u00e1s \u00e1 hana heldur \u00e1 transf\u00f3lk almennt.<\/p>\n
Jane n\u00e1\u00f0i a\u00f0 kenna m\u00e9r, og l\u00edklega m\u00f6rgum \u00f6\u00f0rum, a\u00f0 hugsa um kyn og transf\u00f3lk. Til d\u00e6mis a\u00f0 pakka \u00feeirri hugmynd a\u00f0 allir sem eru trans \u00feurfi a\u00f0 ganga \u00ed gegnum allar skur\u00f0a\u00f0ger\u00f0ir sem eru \u00ed bo\u00f0i.<\/p>\n
Kannski er \u00fea\u00f0 Jane a\u00f0 \u00feakka a\u00f0 \u00e9g enda\u00f0i einhvern veginn me\u00f0 fullt af f\u00f3lk \u00far transsamf\u00e9laginu \u00e1 Twitter. \u00dea\u00f0 var ekkert me\u00f0 vilja gert. \u00c9g bara fatta\u00f0i allt \u00ed einu a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 var fullt af transf\u00f3lki \u00fearna.<\/p>\n
\u00c9g s\u00e9 reglulega p\u00f3sta fr\u00e1 transf\u00f3lki sem er \u00f3\u00f6ruggt me\u00f0 \u00fatlit sitt. \u00de\u00e1 langar mig a\u00f0 vera t\u00fdpan sem getur einl\u00e6glega tj\u00e1\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 fallegt. En m\u00e1li\u00f0 er a\u00f0 \u00e9g er eiginlega aldrei a\u00f0 tj\u00e1 mig um \u00fatlit f\u00f3lks. M\u00e9r finnst \u00fea\u00f0 ekki mitt hlutverk. M\u00e9r finnst a\u00f0 \u00e1lit mitt \u00e6tti yfirh\u00f6fu\u00f0 ekki skipta neinn m\u00e1li. Nema kannski m\u00edna n\u00e1nustu.<\/p>\n
En \u00feeir sem vilja a\u00f0 a\u00f0rar manneskjur upplifi sig lj\u00f3tar eru t\u00fdpurnar sem tj\u00e1 sig mest. Vilja a\u00f0 or\u00f0in \u00feeirra s\u00e6ri og minnki sj\u00e1lfstraust.<\/p>\n
\u00deannig a\u00f0 \u00ed sta\u00f0inn fyrir a\u00f0 kommenta vi\u00f0 myndirnar ykkar \u00fe\u00e1 skrifa\u00f0i \u00e9g \u00feessa bloggf\u00e6rslu, a\u00f0allega til a\u00f0 segja: \u00c9g s\u00e9 fegur\u00f0 ykkar.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u00dea\u00f0 var manneskja sem \u00e9g s\u00e1 oft \u00feegar \u00e9g var t\u00e1ningur. Mig minnir a\u00f0 h\u00fan (manneskjan) hafi veri\u00f0 \u00e1 mi\u00f0jum aldri. H\u00fan leyf\u00f0i s\u00e9r uppreisn gegn vi\u00f0teknum venjum var\u00f0andi \u00fatlit og kl\u00e6\u00f0abur\u00f0. Ekki \u00e1berandi. Ekki miki\u00f0. \u00c9g vissi ekkert hva\u00f0 \u00feetta \u00fe\u00fdddi og \u00e9g \u00e6tla ekki a\u00f0 giska n\u00fana \u00fe\u00f3 \u00e9g hafi vissulega greinilegri hugmyndir … Halda \u00e1fram a\u00f0 lesa: (Trans) f\u00f3lk og fegur\u00f0<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":18960,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[180,179,177,178],"class_list":["post-18959","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-almennt","tag-q29042","tag-q28130198","tag-mannrettindi","tag-trans"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18959","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18959"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18959\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":22837,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18959\/revisions\/22837"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/18960"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18959"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18959"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18959"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}