{"id":18982,"date":"2020-10-09T14:11:33","date_gmt":"2020-10-09T14:11:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/?p=18982"},"modified":"2020-10-09T14:11:43","modified_gmt":"2020-10-09T14:11:43","slug":"fataek-born-verdskulda-ekki-neitt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/2020\/10\/09\/fataek-born-verdskulda-ekki-neitt\/","title":{"rendered":"F\u00e1t\u00e6k b\u00f6rn ver\u00f0skulda ekki neitt"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c9g fann mj\u00f6g pers\u00f3nulega fyrir valdat\u00f6ku frj\u00e1lshyggjunnar \u00e1 \u00cdslandi \u00feegar \u00e9g var 12-14 \u00e1ra. \u00c9g \u00feurfti a\u00f0 fara \u00ed tannr\u00e9ttingar. En r\u00edkisstj\u00f3rn Dav\u00ed\u00f0s Oddssonar og J\u00f3ns Baldvins var a\u00f0 r\u00e1\u00f0ast \u00e1 kerfi\u00f0. \u00deegar \u00e9g m\u00e6tti \u00ed fyrsta t\u00edmann var ekki lj\u00f3st hvernig grei\u00f0slu\u00fe\u00e1tttaka foreldra yr\u00f0i. Tannr\u00e9ttingarfr\u00e6\u00f0ingurinn var \u00e1byrgur og sag\u00f0i a\u00f0 hann vildi ekki byrja me\u00f0fer\u00f0 me\u00f0an ekki v\u00e6ri \u00e1 hreinu hve miki\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 kosta\u00f0i.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00ed\u00f0an var\u00f0 lj\u00f3st hvernig \u00feetta yr\u00f0i. Kostna\u00f0i var velt yfir \u00e1 fj\u00f6lskyldurnar.<\/p>\n<p>\u00deetta var ekki g\u00f3\u00f0ur t\u00edmi \u00ed atvinnum\u00e1lum sem haf\u00f0i mikil \u00e1hrif \u00e1 mitt heimili. \u00c9g fann mj\u00f6g sterkt fyrir \u00feessum \u00fer\u00fdstingi \u00e1 \u00feessum \u00e1rum. \u00dea\u00f0 voru ekki til miklir peningar. \u00c9g vissi l\u00edka a\u00f0 tannr\u00e9ttingar kostu\u00f0u miki\u00f0. \u00deannig a\u00f0 \u00ed hvert skipti sem \u00e9g m\u00e6tti \u00ed t\u00edma \u00fe\u00e1 fann \u00e9g fyrir bl\u00f6ndu af sk\u00f6mm og samviskubiti.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9g tala\u00f0i au\u00f0vita\u00f0 ekki um \u00feetta vi\u00f0 neinn. \u00dea\u00f0 var ekki vel s\u00e9\u00f0 a\u00f0 vera f\u00e1t\u00e6kur. \u00deegar \u00e9g m\u00e6tti \u00ed sk\u00f3lann \u00ed sk\u00f3m sem voru keyptir \u00ed R\u00famfatalagernum f\u00e9kk \u00e9g a\u00f0 heyra \u00fea\u00f0. \u00d6ll f\u00f6t sem \u00e9g \u00e1tti voru gagnr\u00fdnd \u00e1 svipa\u00f0an h\u00e1tt. &#8222;Er \u00feetta \u00far Hagkaup?&#8220; var l\u00edna sem \u00e9g heyr\u00f0i mj\u00f6g oft.<\/p>\n<p>Samspil tilfinninga hj\u00e1 m\u00e9r \u00e1 \u00feessum aldri var fl\u00f3ki\u00f0. Mig langa\u00f0i \u00ed hitt og \u00feetta en skamma\u00f0ist m\u00edn \u00feegar \u00e9g f\u00e9kk eitthva\u00f0. Fannst \u00fea\u00f0 peningas\u00f3un. S\u00e9rstaklega ef \u00fea\u00f0 var eitthva\u00f0 d\u00fdrt. \u00deegar \u00e9g eigna\u00f0ist Nike sk\u00f3 var \u00e9g \u00e1n\u00e6g\u00f0ur, ekki \u00fat af merkinu heldur af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 sk\u00f3rnir entust. En \u00fea\u00f0 var l\u00edka sk\u00f6mm. \u00deetta var s\u00f3un. \u00c9g var au\u00f0vita\u00f0 l\u00edka hr\u00e6ddur um a\u00f0 einhver myndi taka a\u00f0 s\u00e9r a\u00f0 skemma \u00fe\u00e1. M\u00e9r lei\u00f0 eiginlega betur \u00feegar \u00e9g f\u00e9kk falsa\u00f0ar Levi&#8217;s gallabuxur \u00fe\u00f3 \u00fea\u00f0 v\u00e6ri h\u00e6\u00f0st a\u00f0 m\u00e9r.<\/p>\n<p>Lukkulega var \u00e9g ekki mj\u00f6g lengi me\u00f0 spangir. \u00de\u00e1 var \u00e9g bara me\u00f0 g\u00f3m og v\u00edra \u00e1 bak vi\u00f0 framtennur. \u00c9g enda\u00f0i f\u00f3r sjaldnar og sjaldnar \u00ed t\u00edma til a\u00f0 athuga hvernig gekk. Annar v\u00edrinn losna\u00f0i og \u00e9g enda\u00f0i me\u00f0 a\u00f0 fjarl\u00e6gja hann alveg sj\u00e1lfur. A\u00f0 lokum brotna\u00f0i g\u00f3murinn \u00e9g f\u00e9kk ekki af m\u00e9r a\u00f0 m\u00e6ta til a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta laga hann e\u00f0a f\u00e1 n\u00fdjan. Tennurnar hafa sem betur fer haldist a\u00f0 mestu \u00e1 r\u00e9ttum sta\u00f0.<\/p>\n<p>\u00dea\u00f0 sem er \u00f3tr\u00falegast er l\u00edklega a\u00f0 sk\u00f6mmin er enn\u00fe\u00e1 til sta\u00f0ar. \u00c9g reyni a\u00f0 gagnr\u00fdna frj\u00e1lshyggju me\u00f0 almennum r\u00f6kum en sta\u00f0reyndin er s\u00fa a\u00f0 \u00e9g hef fundi\u00f0 sj\u00e1lfur fyrir aflei\u00f0ingum \u00feessarar mannfyrirlitningarstefnu sem refsar ekki bara f\u00e1t\u00e6kum heldur b\u00f6rnum \u00feeirra l\u00edka. \u00dea\u00f0 a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta okkur finna fyrir a\u00f0 peningaskortur \u00fe\u00fd\u00f0i a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 ver\u00f0skuldum ekki neitt.<\/p>\n<p>\u00dea\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00e9g s\u00e9 langt til vinstri \u00e1 p\u00f3lit\u00edska skalanum er au\u00f0vita\u00f0 n\u00e1tengt \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00e9g upplif\u00f0i a\u00f0 heimili mitt var selt \u00e1 nau\u00f0ungaruppbo\u00f0i. \u00c9g vil ekki a\u00f0 \u00f6nnur b\u00f6rn upplifi \u00fea\u00f0 sama og \u00e9g. \u00deessi sk\u00f6mm eitrar mann fyrir l\u00edfst\u00ed\u00f0. \u00dea\u00f0 ver\u00f0ur aldrei au\u00f0velt a\u00f0 f\u00e1t\u00e6kari st\u00e9ttum en vi\u00f0 \u00e6ttum a\u00f0 stefna a\u00f0 kerfi sem er mann\u00fa\u00f0legt.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9g get ekki fyrirgefi\u00f0 stj\u00f3rnm\u00e1lam\u00f6nnum sem lei\u00f0a Sj\u00e1lfst\u00e6\u00f0isflokkinn til valda. Ekki \u00fe\u00e1 og ekki n\u00fana. Efnahagsstefna flokksins er gjald\u00ferota. Keisarinn er berrassa\u00f0ur. \u00dea\u00f0 \u00e6tti \u00f6llum a\u00f0 vera lj\u00f3st a\u00f0 flokkurinn hefur ekkert fram a\u00f0 f\u00e6ra anna\u00f0 en gr\u00e6\u00f0gi og \u00fej\u00f3nkun vi\u00f0 hina r\u00edku.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c9g fann mj\u00f6g pers\u00f3nulega fyrir valdat\u00f6ku frj\u00e1lshyggjunnar \u00e1 \u00cdslandi \u00feegar \u00e9g var 12-14 \u00e1ra. \u00c9g \u00feurfti a\u00f0 fara \u00ed tannr\u00e9ttingar. En r\u00edkisstj\u00f3rn Dav\u00ed\u00f0s Oddssonar og J\u00f3ns Baldvins var a\u00f0 r\u00e1\u00f0ast \u00e1 kerfi\u00f0. \u00deegar \u00e9g m\u00e6tti \u00ed fyrsta t\u00edmann var ekki lj\u00f3st hvernig grei\u00f0slu\u00fe\u00e1tttaka foreldra yr\u00f0i. Tannr\u00e9ttingarfr\u00e6\u00f0ingurinn var \u00e1byrgur og sag\u00f0i a\u00f0 hann vildi ekki byrja &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/2020\/10\/09\/fataek-born-verdskulda-ekki-neitt\/\" class=\"more-link\">Halda \u00e1fram a\u00f0 lesa: <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">F\u00e1t\u00e6k b\u00f6rn ver\u00f0skulda ekki neitt<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":18983,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[163,181],"class_list":["post-18982","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-island","tag-q178598","tag-q218303"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18982","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18982"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18982\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":18984,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18982\/revisions\/18984"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/18983"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18982"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18982"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18982"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}