{"id":3327,"date":"2007-03-09T17:31:48","date_gmt":"2007-03-09T17:31:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/2007\/03\/09\/um-ad-saera-saklausa\/"},"modified":"2019-01-03T20:44:27","modified_gmt":"2019-01-03T20:44:27","slug":"um-ad-saera-saklausa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/2007\/03\/09\/um-ad-saera-saklausa\/","title":{"rendered":"Um a\u00f0 s\u00e6ra saklausa"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Vefriti\u00f0 <a href=\"http:\/\/vantru.is\/\">Vantr\u00fa<\/a> hefur ekki oft veri\u00f0 \u00e1saka\u00f0 um a\u00f0 s\u00fdna tilfinningum f\u00f3lks of mikla vir\u00f0ingu, hi\u00f0 gangst\u00e6\u00f0a hefur oft veri\u00f0 sagt.  Samt er \u00fea\u00f0 \u00feannig a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 eru \u00f3tal tilvik \u00fear sem vi\u00f0 h\u00f6fum fengi\u00f0 til okkar m\u00e1l e\u00f0a d\u00e6mi \u00fear sem vi\u00f0 hef\u00f0um geta\u00f0 komi\u00f0 st\u00f3rum og r\u00e9ttl\u00e1tum h\u00f6ggum \u00e1 \u00fdmsa a\u00f0ila sem eru \u00ed hindurvitnabransanum en sleppt \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 nota \u00feau \u00fear sem vi\u00f0 hef\u00f0um \u00feurft a\u00f0 s\u00e6ra tilfinningar saklausra m\u00e1lsa\u00f0ila \u00ed lei\u00f0inni.\n<\/p>\n<p>\u00cd s\u00ed\u00f0ustu viku f\u00e9kk \u00e9g einmitt sl\u00edkt m\u00e1l upp \u00ed hendurnar en engin grein var skrifu\u00f0 \u00fear sem \u00fearna var um a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a nokku\u00f0 sem hef\u00f0i geta\u00f0 \u00fdft upp s\u00e1r og sorg.  \u00deetta hef\u00f0i hins vegar komi\u00f0 mj\u00f6g illa vi\u00f0 \u00feann &#8222;seka&#8220; \u00ed m\u00e1linu. S\u00e1 \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 algj\u00f6rlega skili\u00f0 af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 hann l\u00e9k s\u00e9r einmitt a\u00f0 tilfinningum \u00feeirra sem \u00e9g vil ekki s\u00e6ra.  \u00deetta gerist mj\u00f6g reglulega.\n<\/p>\n<p>Yfirleitt fer \u00feetta \u00feannig fram a\u00f0 \u00e1 loku\u00f0u spjallbor\u00f0i Vantr\u00faar fara fram umr\u00e6\u00f0ur um m\u00e1li\u00f0 og \u00e9g get alveg sagt \u00fea\u00f0 sem satt er a\u00f0 n\u00e6r alltaf eru allir s\u00e1ttir vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 sleppa svona m\u00e1lum \u00fer\u00e1tt fyrir a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 hef\u00f0i komi\u00f0 s\u00e9r vel fyrir okkur a\u00f0 uppl\u00fdsa um \u00feau.   M\u00e9r finnst l\u00edka alltaf skr\u00fdti\u00f0 a\u00f0 sj\u00e1 f\u00f3lk sem notar s\u00e9r svona m\u00e1l s\u00e9r til framdr\u00e1ttar.\n<\/p>\n<p>Sm\u00e1ralindarb\u00e6klingarm\u00e1li\u00f0 er \u00e1 suman h\u00e1tt keiml\u00edkt \u00feessu.  Gu\u00f0bj\u00f6rg hef\u00f0i geta\u00f0 teki\u00f0 sig til og r\u00e6tt um \u00feetta m\u00e1l \u00e1 p\u00f3stlista feministaf\u00e9lagsins e\u00f0a bara konu \u00e1 konu (e\u00f0a konu \u00e1 mann jafnvel) og \u00fe\u00e1 hef\u00f0i h\u00fan vonandi fengi\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1 \u00e1bendingu a\u00f0 \u00fearna s\u00e9 ekki bara m\u00f6guleiki til a\u00f0 koma h\u00f6ggi \u00e1 \u00fe\u00e1 sem h\u00fan telur vera a\u00f0 setja barn fram \u00e1 \u00f3s\u00e6milegan m\u00e1ta heldur myndi \u00feetta einnig koma mj\u00f6g illa vi\u00f0 st\u00falkuna.\n<\/p>\n<p>Gu\u00f0bj\u00f6rg er lektor \u00ed fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0lafr\u00e6\u00f0i en vir\u00f0ist ekki hafa mikinn skilning \u00e1 mi\u00f0linum sem h\u00fan tj\u00e1ir sig \u00e1.  \u00deegar \u00e9g skrifa eitthva\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00feessa s\u00ed\u00f0u m\u00edna \u00fe\u00e1 geri \u00e9g \u00fea\u00f0 vitandi a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 g\u00e6ti enda\u00f0 \u00ed fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0lum og \u00fea\u00f0 hefur alveg komi\u00f0 fyrir.  Samt skrifa \u00e9g bara \u00e1 m\u00edna f\u00e1f\u00f6rnu s\u00ed\u00f0u.  Gu\u00f0bj\u00f6rg er me\u00f0limur \u00ed st\u00f3ru bloggsamf\u00e9lagi sem er um lei\u00f0 hluti af st\u00e6rsta fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0li \u00cdslands.  \u00dea\u00f0 er lj\u00f3st a\u00f0 \u00feegar einhver m\u00e1l koma \u00fear upp \u00fe\u00e1 vekja \u00feau athygli.  Ef ma\u00f0ur varpar sprengju \u00fear \u00fe\u00e1 mun f\u00f3lk taka eftir henni.  Gu\u00f0bj\u00f6rg hef\u00f0i \u00e1tt a\u00f0 gera s\u00e9r grein fyrir \u00feessu og \u00e9g skil ekki hvernig h\u00fan ger\u00f0i \u00feessi mist\u00f6k.  Sama hve vitlaus m\u00e9r finnst t\u00falkun hennar \u00fe\u00e1 finnst m\u00e9r mun verra hvernig h\u00fan sni\u00f0gekk tilfinningar varnarlausrar 14 \u00e1ra st\u00falku.\n<\/p>\n<p>N\u00fana ver\u00f0ur Gu\u00f0bj\u00f6rg bara a\u00f0 vona a\u00f0 st\u00falkan sleppi a\u00f0 mestu vi\u00f0 eftirk\u00f6st \u00feessa m\u00e1ls en \u00e9g er ekkert of bjarts\u00fdnn.  Vi\u00f0 ver\u00f0um a\u00f0 treysta \u00e1 a\u00f0 sk\u00f3laf\u00e9lagar st\u00falkunnar og a\u00f0rir \u00ed kringum hana hafi meiri tilfinninga\u00feroska en Gu\u00f0bj\u00f6rg.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Vefriti\u00f0 Vantr\u00fa hefur ekki oft veri\u00f0 \u00e1saka\u00f0 um a\u00f0 s\u00fdna tilfinningum f\u00f3lks of mikla vir\u00f0ingu, hi\u00f0 gangst\u00e6\u00f0a hefur oft veri\u00f0 sagt. Samt er \u00fea\u00f0 \u00feannig a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 eru \u00f3tal tilvik \u00fear sem vi\u00f0 h\u00f6fum fengi\u00f0 til okkar m\u00e1l e\u00f0a d\u00e6mi \u00fear sem vi\u00f0 hef\u00f0um geta\u00f0 komi\u00f0 st\u00f3rum og r\u00e9ttl\u00e1tum h\u00f6ggum \u00e1 \u00fdmsa a\u00f0ila sem eru &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/2007\/03\/09\/um-ad-saera-saklausa\/\" class=\"more-link\">Halda \u00e1fram a\u00f0 lesa: <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Um a\u00f0 s\u00e6ra saklausa<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[17],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3327","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-fjolmidlar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3327","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3327"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3327\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16772,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3327\/revisions\/16772"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3327"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3327"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3327"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}