\u00dea\u00f0 var fullkomlega fyrirs\u00e9\u00f0 a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk f\u00e6ri af sta\u00f0 v\u00e6l yfir v\u00e6ntanlegum kynjakv\u00f3ta \u00ed Gettu betur. M.a. er fullyrt a\u00f0 stelpur hafi einfaldlega ekki \u00e1huga \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 taka \u00fe\u00e1tt. Ef \u00fea\u00f0 er r\u00e9tt \u00fe\u00e1 getum vi\u00f0 spurt hver s\u00e9 \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0an fyrir \u00e1hugaleysinu. \u00cd fyrra lagi er h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 svara \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00feetta s\u00e9 ekki stelpum e\u00f0lisl\u00e6gt \u00e1 einhvern h\u00e1tt. \u00cd seinna lagi \u00fe\u00e1 getum vi\u00f0 svara\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 eitthva\u00f0 \u00ed menningu okkar sem f\u00e6lir stelpur fr\u00e1. \u00c9g tel a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 getum ekki liti\u00f0 til fyrra valkostarins fyrr en vi\u00f0 h\u00f6fum \u00fatiloka\u00f0 \u00feann seinni og \u00fea\u00f0 h\u00f6fum vi\u00f0 alls ekki gert.\n<\/p>\n
F\u00f3lk segir a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 ekkert vi\u00f0 valferli\u00f0 \u00ed li\u00f0 sem gerir stelpum erfi\u00f0ara a\u00f0 komast \u00ed li\u00f0i\u00f0. \u00c9g er ekki fyllilega sannf\u00e6r\u00f0ur. Ma\u00f0ur g\u00e6ti t.d. spurt hverjir eru \u00fea\u00f0 semja pr\u00f3fin og \u00fe\u00e1 hvort \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 m\u00f6guleiki \u00e1 a\u00f0 pr\u00f3fi\u00f0 s\u00e9 tengdara \u00e1hugam\u00e1lum str\u00e1ka en stelpna. En \u00e9g efast um a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 skipti miklu m\u00e1li.\n<\/p>\n
Ef vi\u00f0 l\u00edtum \u00e1 menningarhlutann, annars vegar Gettu betur menninguna og hins vegar okkar eigin samf\u00e9lagsmenningu, getum vi\u00f0 kannski fengi\u00f0 einhver sv\u00f6r. Stef\u00e1n P\u00e1lsson benti snemma \u00e1 \u00e1rinu \u00e1 a\u00f0 Gettu betur h\u00f3par framhaldssk\u00f3lanna v\u00e6ru str\u00e1kakl\u00edkur<\/a>. \u00dea\u00f0 er g\u00f3\u00f0 byrjun a\u00f0 lesa hans grein. \u00dea\u00f0 er ekkert endilega spennandi fyrir stelpur a\u00f0 ey\u00f0a vetrinum \u00ed a\u00f0 \u00e6fa fyrir spurningakeppni \u00ed h\u00f3pi \u00fear sem eru bara str\u00e1kar. M\u00e9r finnst sums\u00e9 mun l\u00edklegra a\u00f0 stelpum \u00feyki \u00e6fingarferli\u00f0 l\u00edti\u00f0 spennandi frekar en a\u00f0 \u00feeim \u00feyki keppnin l\u00edti\u00f0 spennandi. En eins og Stef\u00e1n bendir \u00e1 \u00fe\u00e1 hefur einn sk\u00f3li oft skori\u00f0 sig \u00far og \u00fea\u00f0 er MH. \u00dear mynda\u00f0ist hef\u00f0 fyrir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 stelpur v\u00e6ru me\u00f0. \u00c9g veit ekki hvort s\u00fa hef\u00f0 er enn til sta\u00f0ar enda hef \u00e9g ekki nennt a\u00f0 horfa \u00e1 Gettu betur \u00ed nokkur \u00e1r.\n<\/p>\n Ef ma\u00f0ur vildi prufa str\u00e1kakl\u00edkukenninguna \u00fe\u00e1 v\u00e6ri \u00e1hugavert a\u00f0 stofna tvo\u00a0kynjaskipta Gettu betur h\u00f3pa \u00ed hverjum sk\u00f3la og s\u00ed\u00f0an velja \u00far \u00feeim \u00feegar n\u00e6r dregur keppni. Einfaldara v\u00e6ri v\u00e6ntanlega a\u00f0 fara \u00fe\u00e1 lei\u00f0 a\u00f0 hafa einn h\u00f3p me\u00f0 nokkurn veginn j\u00f6fnum kynjahlutf\u00f6llum.\n<\/p>\n En \u00feetta er a\u00f0 sj\u00e1lfs\u00f6g\u00f0u fl\u00f3knara. \u00deetta sn\u00fdst l\u00edka um fyrirmyndir. \u00deegar stelpur m\u00e6ta \u00ed framhaldssk\u00f3la \u00fe\u00e1 hafa \u00fe\u00e6r v\u00e6ntanlega alist upp vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 sj\u00e1 a\u00f0 Gettu betur er str\u00e1kakeppni. \u00dea\u00f0 eru \u00f6rf\u00e1ar stelpur sem keppa og \u00fev\u00ed ekkert skr\u00fdti\u00f0 a\u00f0 a\u00f0rar stelpur dragi \u00f3me\u00f0vita\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1 \u00e1lyktun a\u00f0 \u00feetta s\u00e9 n\u00fa bara fyrir str\u00e1ka nema a\u00f0 rosalega kl\u00e1rar stelpur geti veri\u00f0 me\u00f0.\n<\/p>\n \u00deetta er svo sem reglan \u00ed samf\u00e9laginu \u00ed heild. Karlkyni\u00f0 er normat\u00edvt. Karlkyni\u00f0 er sj\u00e1lfgefi\u00f0. Konur sem leggja \u00ed a\u00f0 fara \u00ed fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0lun e\u00f0a stj\u00f3rnm\u00e1l e\u00f0a hva\u00f0eina \u00fear sem karlmenn hafa veri\u00f0 \u00ed meirihluta \u00feurfa ekki bara a\u00f0 leggja \u00ed \u00feessa karlaveldi heldur \u00feurfa \u00fe\u00e6r a\u00f0 gera \u00fea\u00f0 vitandi a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r eru stimpla\u00f0ar sem fulltr\u00faar s\u00edns kyns \u00e1 me\u00f0an karlmennirnir \u00feurfa n\u00e6r aldrei a\u00f0 hugsa \u00e1 sl\u00edkan h\u00e1tt.\n<\/p>\n Ef \u00e1 m\u00e1 or\u00f0a \u00feetta a\u00f0eins \u00f6\u00f0ruv\u00edsi \u00fe\u00e1 er \u00fea\u00f0 \u00feannig a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 er erfi\u00f0ara a\u00f0 f\u00e1 konur til a\u00f0 m\u00e6ta \u00ed fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0la e\u00f0a bj\u00f3\u00f0a sig fram (nema raunverulega jafnr\u00e9ttissinnu\u00f0um flokki). \u00c1st\u00e6\u00f0an fyrir \u00fev\u00ed er m.a. s\u00fa a\u00f0 konur eru hlutfallslega miklu f\u00e6rri \u00ed stj\u00f3rnm\u00e1lum og \u00ed fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0lum. \u00deetta er sums\u00e9 v\u00edtahringur. Og \u00fe\u00f3 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 \u00f3sanngjarnt \u00fe\u00e1 ver\u00f0a konur stundum a\u00f0 hugsa a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r skuli bj\u00f3\u00f0a sig fram til a\u00f0 vera fyrirmynd og \u00fe\u00e6r skuli m\u00e6ta \u00ed vi\u00f0t\u00f6l til a\u00f0 vera fyrirmynd.\n<\/p>\n Vi\u00f0 getum spurt hvort samf\u00e9lagi\u00f0 s\u00e9 eins og kassar af Playmo leikf\u00f6ngum e\u00f0a hvort Playmo endurspegli samf\u00e9lagi\u00f0. Kassar af Playmo leikf\u00f6ngum eru \u00feannig samsett a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 koma yfirleitt engar konur me\u00f0 fyrr en sem \u00feri\u00f0ja f\u00edg\u00faran. Undantekning er \u00feegar kassarnir eru frekar \u00e6tla\u00f0ir stelpum. \u00de\u00e1 eru \u00fea\u00f0 \u00e6vint\u00fdrapers\u00f3nur, fj\u00f6lskyldur og allt sem tengist d\u00fdrum. \u00dearna l\u00e6ra stelpur og str\u00e1kar a\u00f0 setja konurnar \u00ed aukahlutverk. \u00deetta getum vi\u00f0 l\u00edka \u00f6ll l\u00e6rt af fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0lum og \u00fe.\u00e1.m. Gettu betur.\n<\/p>\n N\u00fa \u00e6tla \u00e9g a\u00f0 vona a\u00f0 \u00feeir sem sj\u00e1i um Gettu betur undirb\u00faning \u00ed sk\u00f3lum taki verkefni\u00f0 alvarlega. Fyrsti pr\u00f3fsteinninn er hvort \u00feeir taki bara eina stelpu \u00ed h\u00f3pinn e\u00f0a hvort \u00fea\u00f0 ver\u00f0i teki\u00f0 me\u00f0viti\u00f0 \u00e1kv\u00f6r\u00f0un um a\u00f0 hafa \u00fe\u00e6r fleiri til \u00feess a\u00f0 vinna gegn str\u00e1kakl\u00edku menningunni sem \u00fear hefur r\u00edkt og \u00fear me\u00f0 gera keppnina meira heillandi fyrir \u00fe\u00e6r stelpur sem geta or\u00f0i\u00f0 til \u00feess a\u00f0 koma li\u00f0i \u00feeirra \u00ed \u00farslit.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \u00dea\u00f0 var fullkomlega fyrirs\u00e9\u00f0 a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk f\u00e6ri af sta\u00f0 v\u00e6l yfir v\u00e6ntanlegum kynjakv\u00f3ta \u00ed Gettu betur. M.a. er fullyrt a\u00f0 stelpur hafi einfaldlega ekki \u00e1huga \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 taka \u00fe\u00e1tt. 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