\u00c9g man \u00feegar \u00e9g var \u00ed skiptin\u00e1mi \u00e1 \u00cdrlandi \u00fe\u00e1 f\u00f3r \u00e9g \u00e1 fer\u00f0alag me\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fdskum vinum m\u00ednum. Vi\u00f0 gistum \u00f6ll \u00ed sama herbergi \u00e1 farfuglaheimili. \u00deegar vi\u00f0 vorum a\u00f0 fara \u00ed r\u00fami\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1 t\u00f3k ein stelpan og vippa\u00f0i s\u00e9r \u00far \u00f6llu a\u00f0 ofan og kl\u00e6ddi sig s\u00ed\u00f0an \u00ed einhvern \u00fe\u00e6gilegan bol til a\u00f0 sofa \u00ed. \u00dea\u00f0 var innilega \u00f3kynfer\u00f0islegt af hennar h\u00e1lfu. \u00cd m\u00ednum reynsluheimi ger\u00f0u stelpur og konur ekki svona. \u00dea\u00f0 var alveg sm\u00e1 menningarsjokk.\n<\/p>\n
\u00c1 mi\u00f0vikudagskv\u00f6ldi\u00f0 datt \u00e9g inn \u00e1 Twitter og s\u00e1 #FreeTheNipple taka yfir. \u00c9g vissi ekki hva\u00f0 \u00e9g \u00e6tti a\u00f0 halda. \u00dea\u00f0 var eitthva\u00f0 meirih\u00e1ttar a\u00f0 gerast sem \u00e9g fatta\u00f0i bara ekki. \u00c9g j\u00e1ta alveg a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 kom yfir mig sm\u00e1 „hva\u00f0 eru \u00fe\u00e6r gamlar?“ og fleiri hugsanir sem menn voru \u00f3hr\u00e6ddir vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 tj\u00e1 \u00ed g\u00e6r. En \u00e9g er ekki pabbi (fe\u00f0raveldi\u00f0) \u00feeirra. \u00c9g \u00e1 ekki a\u00f0 hafa vit fyrir \u00feeim. S\u00ed\u00f0an ger\u00f0i \u00e9g svol\u00edti\u00f0 mikilv\u00e6gt – \u00e9g f\u00f3r a\u00f0 lesa skilabo\u00f0in sem fylgdu #FreeTheNipple. \u00de\u00e1 \u00e1tta\u00f0i \u00e9g mig \u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00feetta snerist um v\u00f6ld. Mig langa\u00f0i innilega a\u00f0 vera me\u00f0 \u00ed #FreeTheNipple en \u00e9g \u00e1tta\u00f0i mig flj\u00f3tt \u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00e9g yr\u00f0i aldrei meira en klappst\u00fdra \u00feeirra sem t\u00f3ku v\u00f6ldin.\n<\/p>\n
Me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 birta myndir af s\u00e9r voru st\u00falkurnar a\u00f0 segja a\u00f0 valdi\u00f0 v\u00e6ri \u00feeirra. \u00dea\u00f0 hvort einhverjum karlm\u00f6nnum \u00fearna \u00fati \u00feyki myndirnar \u00e6sandi er bara ekki \u00feeirra vandam\u00e1l. Ekki frekar en ef pilsi\u00f0 \u00feeirra er of stutt, buxurnar of \u00fer\u00f6ngar e\u00f0a brj\u00f3staskorann of \u00e1berandi. \u00dea\u00f0 er gott a\u00f0 muna a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 er ekki einu sinni sammannlegt a\u00f0 hylja brj\u00f3st. Kynfer\u00f0islega spennan er tengd \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 hylja frekar en \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 sj\u00e1 – \u00fea\u00f0 er ekkert spennandi a\u00f0 sj\u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 sem er aldrei huli\u00f0. Ef konur og st\u00falkur \u00e6ttu a\u00f0 setja \u00fea\u00f0 sem sitt a\u00f0almarkmi\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00e6sa aldrei neinn karlmann \u00fe\u00e1 eru b\u00farkur fyrirtaks, og afbur\u00f0a heimskuleg, lausn.\n<\/p>\n
Ef \u00fea\u00f0 skiptir f\u00f3lk svona rosalegu m\u00e1li a\u00f0 \u00e6sa ekki neinn \u00fe\u00e1 hl\u00fdtur \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 vera r\u00f6kr\u00e9tt a\u00f0 banna samkynhneig\u00f0um, og au\u00f0vita\u00f0 tv\u00edkynhneig\u00f0um, a\u00f0 nota skiptia\u00f0st\u00f6\u00f0u (fata, ekki bleyjuskipti) me\u00f0 f\u00f3lki af sama kyni. En af einhverjum \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0um \u00fe\u00e1 eru held \u00e9g flestir \u00feannig a\u00f0 \u00feeir jafna sig mj\u00f6g flj\u00f3tt \u00e1 hugmyndinni a\u00f0 fara \u00ed sturtu „me\u00f0“ einhverjum sem g\u00e6ti m\u00f6gulega \u00fe\u00f3tt \u00e6sandi a\u00f0 sj\u00e1 kroppinn – ef s\u00e1 er af sama kyni. \u00de\u00e1 hef \u00e9g ekki teki\u00f0 eftir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 samkynhneig\u00f0ir einstaklingar hafi s\u00e9rstakan \u00e1huga \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 ey\u00f0a miklum t\u00edma \u00ed b\u00faningsklefum slefandi yfir kroppunum sem \u00fear sj\u00e1st. \u00deegar \u00e9g reyni a\u00f0 setja mig \u00ed \u00fe\u00e6r a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0ur held \u00e9g einfaldlega a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 v\u00e6ri bara ekkert spennandi til lengdar.\n<\/p>\n
\u00dea\u00f0 er l\u00edka \u00feannig a\u00f0 einhverjir str\u00e1kar h\u00f6f\u00f0u or\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed \u00e1 Twitter a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 v\u00e6ri alveg h\u00e6tt a\u00f0 vera spennandi a\u00f0 sj\u00e1 \u00feessar geirv\u00f6rtur. \u00deeir eru h\u00e6ttulega n\u00e1l\u00e6gt \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 fatta punktinn. Sumir telja a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 hlutverk kvenna a\u00f0 vi\u00f0halda einhverri kynfer\u00f0islegri dul\u00fa\u00f0. \u00dea\u00f0 er \u00fea\u00f0 bara ekki..\n<\/p>\n
Brj\u00f3st eru ekki kynf\u00e6ri hefur \u00edtreka\u00f0 veri\u00f0 sagt. \u00dea\u00f0 hefur l\u00edka veri\u00f0 sagt \u00ed gegnum t\u00ed\u00f0ina a\u00f0 heilinn s\u00e9 st\u00e6rsti kynf\u00e6ri\u00f0 en vi\u00f0 hyljum hann ekki til a\u00f0 vi\u00f0halda einhverri dul\u00fa\u00f0. \u00dea\u00f0 er meira l\u00edffr\u00e6\u00f0ileg nau\u00f0syn. \u00dea\u00f0 er enginn gl\u00e6pur a\u00f0 finnast geirv\u00f6rtur, hvort sem \u00fea\u00f0 er \u00e1 karl- e\u00f0a kvenf\u00f3lki, \u00e6sandi. Ekki frekar en \u00fea\u00f0 er gl\u00e6pur a\u00f0 finnast varir, \u00f6kklar e\u00f0a l\u00e6ri \u00e6sandi. En \u00fea\u00f0 er a\u00f0finnsluvert a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 nota sl\u00edkt til a\u00f0 stj\u00f3rnast \u00ed \u00f6\u00f0rum. \u00dea\u00f0 hva\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e9r finnst \u00e6sandi er \u00feitt m\u00e1l og \u00fe\u00fa \u00e6ttir ekki a\u00f0 gera \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 vandam\u00e1li annarra.\n<\/p>\n
\u00cd samhengi hefndarkl\u00e1ms hefur oft veri\u00f0 sagt a\u00f0 stelpur eigi ekki a\u00f0 vera senda neinum myndir af s\u00e9r f\u00e1kl\u00e6ddar. \u00dea\u00f0 er innilega ekki vandam\u00e1li\u00f0. St\u00f3ra vandam\u00e1li\u00f0 er a\u00f0 \u00feeir sem f\u00e1 \u00feessar myndir skuli vera a\u00f0 deila \u00feeim \u00e1n leyfis. St\u00e6rsta vandam\u00e1li\u00f0 er a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 einhvern veginn t\u00falka\u00f0 st\u00falkum \u00ed \u00f3hag a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r hafi teki\u00f0 af s\u00e9r myndir e\u00f0a l\u00e1ti\u00f0 taka af s\u00e9r myndir e\u00f0a gefi\u00f0 einhverjum myndir af s\u00e9r. Ef st\u00falkur lenda \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 myndum af \u00feeim er dreift \u00e1n \u00feeirra leyfis \u00e6ttu \u00fe\u00e6r a\u00f0 geta bori\u00f0 h\u00f6fu\u00f0i\u00f0 h\u00e1tt og sagt fr\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 hafi veri\u00f0 f\u00edfli\u00f0 hann J\u00f3i sem dreif\u00f0i myndunum og vi\u00f0 hin \u00e6ttum a\u00f0 segja vi\u00f0 J\u00f3a a\u00f0 hann eigi a\u00f0 h\u00e6tta a\u00f0 vera f\u00edfl.\n<\/p>\n
Ef einhver lesandi hefur \u00e1hyggjur af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00ed framt\u00ed\u00f0inni muni geirv\u00f6rturnar koma \u00ed baki\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00feeim sem t\u00f3ku \u00fe\u00e1tt \u00ed frelsun \u00feeirra \u00fe\u00e1 er lausnin einf\u00f6ld: \u00c1kveddu a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa munir berjast gegn \u00fev\u00ed<\/strong>. \u00cd h\u00f3pi \u00feeirra sem s\u00fdndu geirv\u00f6rturnar eru r\u00e1\u00f0herrar, forstj\u00f3rar og forsetar framt\u00ed\u00f0arinnar. \u00deetta eru l\u00edka kennarar, hj\u00fakrunarfr\u00e6\u00f0ingar og rafvirkjar. \u00deetta skiptir engu m\u00e1li \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed samhengi. Nema ef okkur \u00feykir hugrekki til a\u00f0 storka \u00f3r\u00f6kr\u00e9ttum vi\u00f0mi\u00f0um samf\u00e9lagsins a\u00f0d\u00e1unarvert – \u00e9g veit a\u00f0 m\u00e9r finnst \u00fea\u00f0.\n<\/p>\n Sem \u00fej\u00f3\u00f0fr\u00e6\u00f0ingur velti \u00e9g fyrir m\u00e9r hvort a\u00f0 geirv\u00f6rtuh\u00e1t\u00ed\u00f0in mikla hafi veri\u00f0 ja\u00f0art\u00edmi, \u00edgildi kj\u00f6tkve\u00f0juh\u00e1t\u00ed\u00f0ar \u00fear sem \u00f6llu er sn\u00fai\u00f0 \u00e1 hvolf, e\u00f0a upphaf af n\u00fdjum vi\u00f0mi\u00f0um. \u00dea\u00f0 skiptir ekki \u00f6llu m\u00e1li. Hver sem ni\u00f0ursta\u00f0an er \u00fe\u00e1 var \u00feetta j\u00e1kv\u00e6tt framtak og \u00e9g d\u00e1ist a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1tttakendum og l\u00edt ekkert ni\u00f0ur \u00e1 \u00fe\u00e6r sem ekki s\u00e1u s\u00e9r f\u00e6rt a\u00f0 vera me\u00f0. \u00dea\u00f0 sem skiptir m\u00e1li er a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r eiga sj\u00e1lfar vali\u00f0.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \u00c9g man \u00feegar \u00e9g var \u00ed skiptin\u00e1mi \u00e1 \u00cdrlandi \u00fe\u00e1 f\u00f3r \u00e9g \u00e1 fer\u00f0alag me\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fdskum vinum m\u00ednum. Vi\u00f0 gistum \u00f6ll \u00ed sama herbergi \u00e1 farfuglaheimili. \u00deegar vi\u00f0 vorum a\u00f0 fara \u00ed r\u00fami\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1 t\u00f3k ein stelpan og vippa\u00f0i s\u00e9r \u00far \u00f6llu a\u00f0 ofan og kl\u00e6ddi sig s\u00ed\u00f0an \u00ed einhvern \u00fe\u00e6gilegan bol til a\u00f0 sofa … Halda \u00e1fram a\u00f0 lesa: #Frelsa\u00f0u hugann<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8838","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-island"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8838","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8838"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8838\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8838"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8838"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8838"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}