\u00deegar Kanasj\u00f3nvarpi\u00f0 kom til voru margir sem t\u00f6ldu a\u00f0 h\u00e9r v\u00e6ri kominn banabiti \u00edslenskrar menningar. \u00deegar h\u00e6\u00f0st er a\u00f0 \u00feessu \u00fe\u00e1 gleymist hi\u00f0 auglj\u00f3sa a\u00f0 \u00feetta var eiginlega bara r\u00e9tt. Vi\u00f0 t\u00f6kum meira og minna vi\u00f0 menningu okkar fr\u00e1 Bandar\u00edkjunum e\u00f0a fr\u00e1 \u00f6\u00f0rum sv\u00e6\u00f0um sem eru undir \u00e1hrifum bandar\u00edskrar menningar. \u00c9g elska margt af \u00feessu innilega og \u00e9g held a\u00f0 margt af \u00fev\u00ed sem vi\u00f0 h\u00f6f\u00f0um h\u00e9r \u00e1\u00f0ur fyrr hafi m\u00e1tt tapast. En ekki allt.\n<\/p>\n
Eitt sem hefur komi\u00f0 \u00e1 yfirbor\u00f0i\u00f0 eftir a\u00f0 geirvartan var frelsu\u00f0 er a\u00f0 vi\u00f0horfi\u00f0 sem er a\u00f0 berjast gegn er ekkert endilega svo gamalt \u00e1 \u00cdslandi. M\u00e9r s\u00fdnist nefnilega a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 h\u00f6fum veri\u00f0 a\u00f0 taka vi\u00f0 bandar\u00edskum vi\u00f0horfum til geirv\u00f6rtunnar. N\u00fdjasta lei\u00f0in \u00e1 innlei\u00f0ingunni er \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 Facebook ritsko\u00f0ar geirv\u00f6rturnar fyrir okkur. Kn\u00faz og Grapevine lentu \u00e1 sv\u00f6rtum listum. Facebook hefur gr\u00ed\u00f0arlegt og \u00f3e\u00f0lilegt vald yfir \u00edslenskri umr\u00e6\u00f0u. \u00c9g benti \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 \u00ed kaldh\u00e6\u00f0nislegum t\u00f3n \u00feegar Kn\u00fazi\u00f0 birti grein me\u00f0 mynd af konu \u00ed b\u00farku a\u00f0 \u00fear v\u00e6ri kominn mynd sem v\u00e6ri Facebook a\u00f0 skapi.\n<\/p>\n
\u00c9g myndi aldrei vilja banna neinni konu a\u00f0 ganga \u00ed b\u00farku en \u00e9g er efins um a\u00f0 valfrelsi\u00f0 s\u00e9 raunverulega til sta\u00f0ar. Samf\u00e9lag \u00fear sem konum leyf\u00f0ist jafnt a\u00f0 stripplast og a\u00f0 ganga \u00ed b\u00farkum v\u00e6ri gott en bara ef vi\u00f0 v\u00e6rum viss um a\u00f0 vali\u00f0 v\u00e6ri raunverulega \u00feeirra. \u00dea\u00f0 sem vi\u00f0 getum kalla\u00f0 fe\u00f0raveldi\u00f0 er yfirleitt of sterkt (en \u00fea\u00f0 v\u00e6ri einf\u00f6ldun a\u00f0 segja a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 v\u00e6ru bara karlmenn sem p\u00f6ssu\u00f0u upp \u00e1 reglur \u00feess).\n<\/p>\n
Sem lei\u00f0ir okkur a\u00f0 neikv\u00e6\u00f0u vi\u00f0br\u00f6g\u00f0unum sem vi\u00f0 h\u00f6fum s\u00e9\u00f0. Af hverju \u00e6tti karlma\u00f0ur sem hr\u00edfst af kvenmannsl\u00edk\u00f6mum a\u00f0 taka \u00fev\u00ed illa a\u00f0 konur s\u00e9u a\u00f0 s\u00fdna meira hold? \u00c6ttu \u00feeir ekki bara a\u00f0 gle\u00f0jast? Af hverju kemur \u00feess \u00fe\u00f6rf a\u00f0 gera l\u00edti\u00f0 \u00far \u00feeim? Af hverju er veri\u00f0 a\u00f0 setja upp vef \u00fear sem ma\u00f0ur getur gefi\u00f0 geirv\u00f6rtunum einkunn?
\n\u00deetta er auglj\u00f3slega sama e\u00f0lis og a\u00f0 karlmenn og str\u00e1kar sem vilja komast \u00ed b\u00f3li\u00f0 me\u00f0 konum taka \u00fe\u00e1tt \u00ed a\u00f0 kalla konur e\u00f0a st\u00falkur sem sofa hj\u00e1, \u00feeim e\u00f0a \u00f6\u00f0rum, „druslur“ (og au\u00f0vita\u00f0 eru konur l\u00edka sekar um \u00feetta). Ef \u00fe\u00fa vilt a\u00f0 konur sofi frekar hj\u00e1 \u00fe\u00e9r \u00fe\u00e1 v\u00e6ri \u00fe\u00e9r auglj\u00f3slega \u00ed hag a\u00f0 vinna a\u00f0 vi\u00f0horfi \u00fear sem konum er ekki refsa\u00f0 \u00e1 nokkurn h\u00e1tt fyrir sl\u00edkt.\n<\/p>\n
Eru \u00fe\u00e1 \u00feessir karlmenn sj\u00e1lfir svo blinda\u00f0ir af fe\u00f0raveldinu a\u00f0 \u00feeir vinna gegn eigin „hag“? \u00deeir setja sig n\u00e6r b\u00f3kstaflega \u00ed hlutverk hins refsandi f\u00f6\u00f0urs sem \u00e1 a\u00f0 sj\u00e1 um a\u00f0 litlu stelpurnar fari ekki \u00fat af strikinu. Er \u00fea\u00f0 ekki \u00f3b\u00e6rileg heimska? Vilja \u00feeir skipta konum \u00ed druslur sem \u00feeir sofa hj\u00e1 og j\u00f3mfr\u00far sem \u00feeir kv\u00e6nast (og eignast)?
\nStelpurnar sem frelsu\u00f0u geirv\u00f6rturnar voru fyrst og fremst a\u00f0 frelsa hug sinn. Str\u00e1karnir sem setja upp vef \u00fear sem h\u00e6gt er a\u00f0 gefa \u00feeim einkunn eru ekki bara a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 setja \u00fe\u00e6r aftur \u00ed hlekki. \u00deeir eru l\u00edka a\u00f0 festa sj\u00e1lfa sig \u00ed fangelsi hugans.\n<\/p>\n
\u00dear sem \u00e9g hef ekki enn birt geirv\u00f6rtumynd h\u00e9r \u00fe\u00e1 finnst Facebook allt \u00ed lagi a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa deilir f\u00e6rslunni minni \u00fear.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u00deegar Kanasj\u00f3nvarpi\u00f0 kom til voru margir sem t\u00f6ldu a\u00f0 h\u00e9r v\u00e6ri kominn banabiti \u00edslenskrar menningar. \u00deegar h\u00e6\u00f0st er a\u00f0 \u00feessu \u00fe\u00e1 gleymist hi\u00f0 auglj\u00f3sa a\u00f0 \u00feetta var eiginlega bara r\u00e9tt. Vi\u00f0 t\u00f6kum meira og minna vi\u00f0 menningu okkar fr\u00e1 Bandar\u00edkjunum e\u00f0a fr\u00e1 \u00f6\u00f0rum sv\u00e6\u00f0um sem eru undir \u00e1hrifum bandar\u00edskrar menningar. \u00c9g elska margt af \u00feessu … Halda \u00e1fram a\u00f0 lesa: Undir oki amer\u00edskrar si\u00f0menningar og fe\u00f0raveldisins<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8847","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-island"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8847","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8847"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8847\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8847"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8847"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/oligneisti\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8847"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}