Uppeldisfr\u00e6\u00f0ingar hafa \u00e1hyggjur af \u00fev\u00ed\u00ad hversu m\u00f6rg b\u00f6rn hafi eigi\u00f0 sj\u00f3nvarpst\u00e6ki \u00ed\u00ad herberginu s\u00ed\u00adnu. Fyrir viki\u00f0 s\u00e9 sj\u00f3nvarpsgl\u00e1p ekki lengur fj\u00f6lskylduath\u00f6fn heldur liggi gr\u00ed\u00adslingarnir \u00ed\u00ad kl\u00e1mi og ofbeldi fram \u00e1 rau\u00f0a n\u00f3tt.<\/p>\n
Sj\u00e1lfur eigna\u00f0ist \u00e9g mitt fyrsta sj\u00f3nvarp sex e\u00f0a sj\u00f6 \u00e1ra gamall, \u00e1ri\u00f0 1981 e\u00f0a 1982. Fram a\u00f0 \u00feeim t\u00ed\u00adma haf\u00f0i fj\u00f6lskyldan veri\u00f0 sj\u00f3nvarpslaus me\u00f0 \u00f6llu. Hugsanlega var \u00feetta \u00fatp\u00e6ld uppeldisfr\u00e6\u00f0ileg \u00e1kv\u00f6r\u00f0un hj\u00e1 m\u00f6mmu og pabba \u00e2\u20ac\u201c l\u00ed\u00adklega r\u00e9\u00f0u \u00fe\u00f3 n\u00e1msmannablankheit meiru \u00ed\u00ad \u00feessu efni.<\/p>\n
\u00deetta sj\u00f3nvarpsleysi angra\u00f0i mig verulega, enda vildi \u00e9g horfa \u00e1 mitt barnaefni. Fr\u00e1 unga aldri spur\u00f0i \u00e9g \u00e1 hverjum degi vi\u00f0 morgunver\u00f0arbor\u00f0i\u00f0 hvort Pr\u00fa\u00f0uleikararnir, Tommi og Jenni e\u00f0a vi\u00f0l\u00ed\u00adka g\u00e6\u00f0aefni v\u00e6ri \u00ed\u00ad sj\u00f3nvarpinu \u00fea\u00f0 kv\u00f6ldi\u00f0. Einatt \u00fer\u00e6ttu foreldrar m\u00ed\u00adnir fyrir \u00fea\u00f0.<\/p>\n
Suma daga hrundi blekkingarleikurinn \u00fe\u00f3, \u00fev\u00ed\u00ad me\u00f0 sj\u00f3nvarpsdagskr\u00e1nni \u00ed\u00ad \u00dej\u00f3\u00f0viljanum fylgdu oft myndskreytingar \u00e2\u20ac\u201c og \u00ed\u00ad hvert sinn sem \u00fear m\u00e1tti sj\u00e1 Pr\u00fa\u00f0uleikarana, Tomma og Jenna e\u00f0a a\u00f0ra vini m\u00ed\u00adna, linnti \u00e9g ekki l\u00e1tum fyrr en fari\u00f0 var \u00ed\u00ad heims\u00f3kn til afa og \u00f6mmu \u00e1 Neshagann.<\/p>\n
Um fimm \u00e1ra aldurinn l\u00e6r\u00f0i \u00e9g svo a\u00f0 stauta mig \u00ed\u00ad gegnum sj\u00f3nvarpsdagskr\u00e1nna og s\u00ed\u00adfri\u00f0 j\u00f3kst um allan helming.<\/p>\n
\u00c1 \u00feessum \u00e1rum var \u00ed\u00ad t\u00ed\u00adsku a\u00f0 gefa b\u00f6rnum skuldabr\u00e9f r\u00ed\u00adkissj\u00f3\u00f0s, sem var eins konar kerfi \u00f3endurgrei\u00f0anlegs skyldusparna\u00f0s. G\u00f3\u00f0hjarta\u00f0ir \u00e6ttingjar fj\u00e1rfestu \u00ed\u00ad br\u00e9fum sem brunnu upp \u00ed\u00ad ver\u00f0b\u00f3lgunni \u00e2\u20ac\u201c br\u00e9fin voru hins vegar smekkleg og f\u00f3ru vel \u00ed\u00ad hillu.<\/p>\n
\u00dea\u00f0 var einhvers konar happdr\u00e6ttisf\u00ed\u00addus tengdur \u00feessum skuldabr\u00e9fum. Held a\u00f0 hann hafi virka\u00f0 \u00feannig a\u00f0 \u00feeir heppnu sem voru dregnir \u00fat hafi fengi\u00f0 hluta af peningunum s\u00ed\u00adnum til baka \u00e1\u00f0ur en \u00feeir brunnu allir upp.<\/p>\n
Svo f\u00f3r a\u00f0 br\u00e9fi\u00f0 mitt var dregi\u00f0 \u00fat og a\u00f0 sj\u00e1lfs\u00f6g\u00f0u var leita\u00f0 lei\u00f0a til a\u00f0 ey\u00f0a f\u00e9nu me\u00f0an \u00fea\u00f0 var einhvers vir\u00f0i. Ni\u00f0ursta\u00f0an var\u00f0 s\u00fa a\u00f0 kaupa nota\u00f0 svart-hv\u00ed\u00adtt sj\u00f3nvarpst\u00e6ki. Sj\u00f3nvarpi\u00f0 var \u00fev\u00ed\u00ad m\u00ed\u00adn eign, en mamma og pabbi borgu\u00f0u afnotagj\u00f6ldin sem leigu, enda st\u00f3\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 \u00ed\u00ad stofunni. \u00c9g var \u00f6rugglega eini krakkinn \u00ed\u00ad Melask\u00f3la sem \u00e1tti eigi\u00f0 sj\u00f3nvarpst\u00e6ki!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Uppeldisfr\u00e6\u00f0ingar hafa \u00e1hyggjur af \u00fev\u00ed\u00ad hversu m\u00f6rg b\u00f6rn hafi eigi\u00f0 sj\u00f3nvarpst\u00e6ki \u00ed\u00ad herberginu s\u00ed\u00adnu. Fyrir viki\u00f0 s\u00e9 sj\u00f3nvarpsgl\u00e1p ekki lengur fj\u00f6lskylduath\u00f6fn heldur liggi gr\u00ed\u00adslingarnir \u00ed\u00ad kl\u00e1mi og ofbeldi fram \u00e1 rau\u00f0a n\u00f3tt. Sj\u00e1lfur eigna\u00f0ist \u00e9g mitt fyrsta sj\u00f3nvarp sex e\u00f0a sj\u00f6 \u00e1ra gamall, \u00e1ri\u00f0 1981 e\u00f0a 1982. Fram a\u00f0 \u00feeim t\u00ed\u00adma haf\u00f0i fj\u00f6lskyldan veri\u00f0 sj\u00f3nvarpslaus … Halda \u00e1fram a\u00f0 lesa: Fyrsta sj\u00f3nvarpst\u00e6ki\u00f0<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":9,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1678","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/stefan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1678","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/stefan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/stefan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/stefan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/9"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/stefan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1678"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/stefan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1678\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/stefan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1678"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/stefan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1678"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/stefan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1678"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}