{"id":856,"date":"2004-12-29T10:33:23","date_gmt":"2004-12-29T10:33:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/192.168.1.4\/stefan\/2004\/12\/29\/auglysingar-afengi-og-kynlif\/"},"modified":"2004-12-29T10:33:23","modified_gmt":"2004-12-29T10:33:23","slug":"auglysingar-afengi-og-kynlif","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/stefan\/2004\/12\/29\/auglysingar-afengi-og-kynlif\/","title":{"rendered":"Augl\u00fdsingar, \u00e1fengi og kynl\u00edf"},"content":{"rendered":"

Milli h\u00f6rmungafr\u00e9ttanna fr\u00e1 As\u00ed\u00adu \u00ed\u00ad g\u00e6r, var \u00ed\u00ad fr\u00e9ttat\u00ed\u00adma St\u00f6\u00f0var 2 \u00ed\u00ad g\u00e6r r\u00e6tt um bj\u00f3raugl\u00fdsingu<\/a> sem lesa m\u00e1tti \u00far \u00fdmis skilabo\u00f0. Augl\u00fdsingin var eitthva\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00fe\u00e1 lei\u00f0 a\u00f0 s\u00fdnd var skr\u00ed\u00adpateikning af heldur aulalegum n\u00e1unga sem var a\u00f0 bisa vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 afkl\u00e6\u00f0a konu. Hann var me\u00f0 skelfingarsvip \u00feess sem \u00e1 \u00ed\u00ad vandr\u00e6\u00f0um me\u00f0 a\u00f0 spretta upp \u00f3kunnum brj\u00f3stahaldara vi\u00f0 a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0ur sem ekki bj\u00f3\u00f0a upp \u00e1 fum og f\u00e1t. – Sem betur fer kom bj\u00f3r\u00e1lfurinn til hj\u00e1lpar og smellti spennunni lausri og m\u00e1 \u00e6tla a\u00f0 glatt hafi or\u00f0i\u00f0 \u00e1 hjalla.<\/p>\n

Ekki haf\u00f0i \u00e9g teki\u00f0 eftir \u00feessari augl\u00fdsingu fyrr en St\u00f6\u00f0 2 s\u00fdndi hana \u00ed\u00ad fr\u00e9ttinni og efast um a\u00f0 h\u00fan hef\u00f0i stungi\u00f0 mig neitt s\u00e9rstaklega. Gagnr\u00fdnandi augl\u00fdsingarinnar taldi hana hins vegar kl\u00e1mfengna, \u00fdta undir \u00fe\u00e1 hugmynd a\u00f0 gott og gilt s\u00e9 a\u00f0 hella konur fullar til a\u00f0 komast upp \u00ed\u00ad r\u00fam me\u00f0 \u00feeim og gott ef ekki v\u00e6ri \u00fdja\u00f0 a\u00f0 einhverjum afbrig\u00f0ilegheitum \u00ed\u00ad kynl\u00ed\u00adfi \u00fear sem pers\u00f3nurnar \u00e1 myndinni v\u00e6ru j\u00fa \u00ferj\u00e1r – ma\u00f0urinn, konan og 20 sm. b\u00fa\u00e1lfurinn…<\/p>\n

N\u00fa er \u00fea\u00f0 hverju or\u00f0i sannara a\u00f0 kynl\u00ed\u00adfsv\u00ed\u00adsanir \u00ed\u00ad augl\u00fdsingum eru komnar \u00fat fyrir allan \u00fej\u00f3fab\u00e1lk. Alls konar matv\u00e6li, en \u00fe\u00f3 einkum s\u00e6lg\u00e6ti, \u00ed\u00ads og gos, eru einatt augl\u00fdst me\u00f0 nautnalegum konum – l\u00ed\u00adkt og framlei\u00f0endurnir treysti s\u00e9r ekki til a\u00f0 augl\u00fdsa g\u00e6\u00f0i og kosti v\u00f6runnar sinnar. \u00deetta er hvimleitt og er eflaust hluti af \u00e1reiti sem reynist samf\u00e9laginu ska\u00f0legt \u00feegar til lengdar l\u00e6tur.<\/p>\n

B\u00ed\u00adlar, raft\u00e6ki, fj\u00e1rm\u00e1lastofnanir – allt eru \u00feetta fyrirb\u00e6ri sem fr\u00e1leitt vir\u00f0ist a\u00f0 augl\u00fdsa me\u00f0 kynl\u00ed\u00adfsv\u00ed\u00adsunum… en er \u00e1fengi endilega \u00ed\u00ad \u00feeim h\u00f3pi?<\/p>\n

Jafnvel h\u00f6r\u00f0ustu var\u00f0hundar vels\u00e6mis \u00ed\u00ad augl\u00fdsinum, myndu fallast \u00e1 a\u00f0 verslun sem selur undirfatna\u00f0 s\u00e9 nokkrum „r\u00e9tti“ til a\u00f0 s\u00fdna f\u00f3lk \u00e1 n\u00e6rh\u00f6ldum \u00ed\u00ad augl\u00fdsingum s\u00ed\u00adnum. \u00c1 \u00fev\u00ed\u00ad tilviki er myndefni\u00f0 fyllilega \u00ed\u00ad samr\u00e6mi vi\u00f0 eiginlegt notagildi varningsins. – \u00c1 sama h\u00e1tt er meiri gl\u00f3ra \u00ed\u00ad \u00fev\u00ed\u00ad a\u00f0 s\u00fdna hra\u00f0akstur og handbremsubeygjur \u00ed\u00ad augl\u00fdsingu \u00fear sem veri\u00f0 er a\u00f0 selja b\u00ed\u00adla en s\u00fakkula\u00f0i. (Hva\u00f0 Umfer\u00f0arstofa segir um sl\u00ed\u00adkan bo\u00f0skap er svo aftur anna\u00f0 m\u00e1l.) – En hva\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1 me\u00f0 \u00e1fengi\u00f0?<\/p>\n

Er bo\u00f0skapurinn: \u00e1fengi getur hj\u00e1lpa\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e9r \u00ed\u00ad vandr\u00e6\u00f0alegum \u00fereifingum me\u00f0 hinu kyninu (e\u00f0a sama kyni ef \u00fat \u00ed\u00ad \u00fea\u00f0 er fari\u00f0) – alveg \u00fat \u00ed\u00ad h\u00f6tt? Er ekki einmitt tilfelli\u00f0 a\u00f0 fullt af f\u00f3lki, karlar jafnt sem konur, nota \u00e1fengi til a\u00f0 losa um \u00fdmsar h\u00f6mlur og einfalda fyrstu skrefin?<\/p>\n

Hversu h\u00e1tt hlutfall af \u00f6llum samb\u00f6ndum \u00e1 \u00cdslandi \u00e6tli hafi or\u00f0i\u00f0 til \u00feegar annar a\u00f0ilinn e\u00f0a b\u00e1\u00f0ir h\u00f6f\u00f0u v\u00ed\u00adn um h\u00f6nd? Hversu margir hafa nota\u00f0 bj\u00f3r, l\u00e9ttv\u00ed\u00adn e\u00f0a sterkari drykki til a\u00f0 brj\u00f3ta \u00ed\u00adsinn \u00e1 einhverjum t\u00ed\u00admapunkti \u00ed\u00ad tilhugal\u00ed\u00adfinu? Ansi margir.<\/p>\n

Og \u00fe\u00e1 erum vi\u00f0 bara a\u00f0 tala um \u00feau samb\u00f6nd sem eitthva\u00f0 var\u00f0 \u00far. Oft breg\u00f0ur f\u00f3lk \u00e1 leik af forvitni og \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 vera me\u00f0 makaleit \u00ed\u00ad huga. \u00dear kemur \u00e1fengi mj\u00f6g oft vi\u00f0 s\u00f6gu. Er einhver \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0a til a\u00f0 ford\u00e6ma skyndikynni og gera l\u00ed\u00adti\u00f0 \u00far \u00feeim?<\/p>\n

Eru samskipti f\u00f3lks sem eiga s\u00e9r sta\u00f0 undir \u00e1hrifum \u00e1 einhvern h\u00e1tt „\u00f3merkilegri“ en \u00feau sem eru \u00fea\u00f0 ekki? Eru \u00feau ekki frekar \u00f6\u00f0ruv\u00ed\u00adsi?<\/p>\n

\u00deegar vi\u00f0 Steinunn<\/a> vorum a\u00f0 draga okkur saman \u00e1 s\u00ed\u00adnum t\u00ed\u00adma, var \u00e1fengi ekki alltaf langt undan. \u00dea\u00f0 var alltaf til rau\u00f0v\u00ed\u00adnsflaska upp \u00ed\u00ad sk\u00e1p \u00e1 Hringbrautinni. Um \u00feessar mundir voru flestir \u00ed\u00ad m\u00ed\u00adnum vinah\u00f3pi t\u00ed\u00ad\u00f0ir gestir \u00e1 N\u00e6sta bar. S\u00e1 sta\u00f0ur kom mj\u00f6g vi\u00f0 s\u00f6gu fyrstu vikurnar okkar. \u00dear var sjaldnast drukki\u00f0 kaffi e\u00f0a malt\u00f6l.<\/p>\n

\u00ed\u0081n \u00feess a\u00f0 hafa nokkra f\u00e9lagsfr\u00e6\u00f0ilega \u00fattekt \u00ed\u00ad h\u00f6ndunum, leyfi \u00e9g m\u00e9r a\u00f0 fullyr\u00f0a a\u00f0 meirihluti f\u00f3lks hafi svipa\u00f0a s\u00f6gu a\u00f0 segja, a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 hafi nota\u00f0 \u00e1fengi \u00ed\u00ad s\u00ed\u00adnum samb\u00f6ndum og \u00ed\u00ad s\u00ed\u00adnu kynl\u00ed\u00adfi – gott ef ekki einmitt til a\u00f0 n\u00e1 a\u00f0 spretta upp \u00f3kunnum brj\u00f3stahaldara \u00ed\u00ad fyrsta sinn.<\/p>\n

F\u00f3lk m\u00e1 alveg hafa \u00fe\u00e1 sko\u00f0un a\u00f0 \u00e6skilegast v\u00e6ri a\u00f0 \u00f6ll p\u00f6r kynntust \u00ed\u00ad str\u00e6t\u00f3 e\u00f0a yfir kak\u00f3bollum – en \u00fea\u00f0 er fr\u00e1leitt a\u00f0 loka augunum fyrir veruleikanum.<\/p>\n

\u00deess vegna angra\u00f0i fr\u00e9ttin \u00e1 St\u00f6\u00f0 2 mig. Hvers vegna \u00fearf a\u00f0 t\u00falka mynd af bj\u00f3r\u00e1lfi a\u00f0 hj\u00e1lpa klaufskum karli vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 spretta upp brj\u00f3stahaldara \u00e1 \u00feann h\u00e1tt a\u00f0 \u00ed\u00ad \u00fev\u00ed\u00ad felist ofbeldisfull skilabo\u00f0? Hvers vegna \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 vera auglj\u00f3st a\u00f0 teikning sem \u00feessi „ali \u00e1 m\u00fdtunni um a\u00f0 r\u00e9tt s\u00e9 a\u00f0 hella stelpur fullar og draga \u00fe\u00e6r \u00ed\u00ad b\u00f3li\u00f0“? Er \u00fea\u00f0 ekki merki um \u00e1kve\u00f0na f\u00f3rnarlambav\u00e6\u00f0ingu hugarfarsins a\u00f0 gera konuna \u00e1 myndinni sj\u00e1lfkrafa a\u00f0 grunlausu f\u00f3rnarlambi \u00feri\u00f0ja a\u00f0ilans \u00ed\u00ad spilinu – bj\u00f3r\u00e1lfsins fingralanga?<\/p>\n

Vaxandi kl\u00e1mv\u00e6\u00f0ing d\u00e6gurmenningurinnar – sag\u00f0i \u00e1litsgjafinn \u00e1 St\u00f6\u00f0 2 \u00ed\u00ad g\u00e6r. \u00c9g veit \u00fea\u00f0 ekki, var \u00feessi augl\u00fdsing ekki bara \u00f6llu raunsannari en margt anna\u00f0 sem haldi\u00f0 er a\u00f0 okkur? \u00c1 \u00fea\u00f0 minnsta er h\u00fan mun sennilegri en \u00f6ll s\u00fapan af augl\u00fdsingum um s\u00faperm\u00f3del og \u00ed\u00ad\u00fer\u00f3ttastj\u00f6rnur sem \u00feamba gosdrykki og \u00fa\u00f0a \u00ed\u00ad sig nammi.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Milli h\u00f6rmungafr\u00e9ttanna fr\u00e1 As\u00ed\u00adu \u00ed\u00ad g\u00e6r, var \u00ed\u00ad fr\u00e9ttat\u00ed\u00adma St\u00f6\u00f0var 2 \u00ed\u00ad g\u00e6r r\u00e6tt um bj\u00f3raugl\u00fdsingu sem lesa m\u00e1tti \u00far \u00fdmis skilabo\u00f0. Augl\u00fdsingin var eitthva\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00fe\u00e1 lei\u00f0 a\u00f0 s\u00fdnd var skr\u00ed\u00adpateikning af heldur aulalegum n\u00e1unga sem var a\u00f0 bisa vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 afkl\u00e6\u00f0a konu. Hann var me\u00f0 skelfingarsvip \u00feess sem \u00e1 \u00ed\u00ad vandr\u00e6\u00f0um me\u00f0 a\u00f0 … Halda \u00e1fram a\u00f0 lesa: Augl\u00fdsingar, \u00e1fengi og kynl\u00edf<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":9,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-856","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/stefan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/856","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/stefan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/stefan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/stefan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/9"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/stefan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=856"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/stefan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/856\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/stefan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=856"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/stefan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=856"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/truflun.net\/stefan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=856"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}